Want more pleasurable, more orgasmic sex? If so, you are not alone. As the sex experts at PleasureMechanics.com, we hear from men and women all over the world who love their partner but want to turn up the heat during sex. The good news is that there are lots of ways to make sex way more fun and more orgasmic for women. One way to explore more orgasmic sex is to try a few additions to the sex positions you already love. Here is a quick guide to the best sex positions for female orgasm.
Before you assume the position, here are two essential tips for female orgasm during sex. Follow these guidelines and no matter what position you end up in, you'll find sex is way more orgasmic for both of you.
Before you start thinking about the best sex positions for female orgasm, remember that orgasmic pleasure starts long before intercourse. Many women prefer a long, slow seduction, allowing arousal to build over time, so don't be afraid to ask for more warm-up if that is what you need to enjoy sex!
Start with a relaxing full body massage, allowing the full body touch to awaken your pleasure as you relax and let go of your day. Then yield to arousing foreplay, without any rush towards intercourse. Slow down, enjoy every step of building arousal and only consider moving on to penetration when you are truly ready for it and are aching for your lover!
The Clitoris is Queen
No matter what sex position you choose, remember that 70% of women do not orgasm during intercourse. Women need direct clitoral stimulation to build high levels of arousal and achieve orgasm. So before you explore new sex positions, remember that your partner should spend lots of time on direct clitoral stimulation with his hands and mouth. Then, as you explore the best sex positions for female orgasm, keep stimulating the clitoris to maximize the chances of female orgasm during intercourse.
One of the Pleasure Mechanics Golden Rules of Sex is this: Female Orgasm BEFORE Intercourse. Keep that in mind and treat yourself to lots of arousal and maybe even an orgasm or two before intercourse starts. Women report that the pleasure of sex skyrockets when they are already in an orgasmic zone!
Now that you are relaxed, aroused and in the orgasmic zone, here are three of the best sex positions for female orgasm during intercourse. Try these three sex positions and then let your own sexual expression guide you into whatever positions are most comfortable for you and your lover. Forget the acrobatics — you'll only be able to have orgasms if your body is comfortable, pain-free and you aren't wasting energy on maintaining a stressful position. Ditch the chandelier sex and focus on what really matters: clitoral stimulation, great rhythm and intimacy with your lover.
The Three Best Sex Positions For Female Orgasm
- Upgrade The Missionary Position. The missionary position is a classic for good reason: many women love the closeness and intimacy of this face-to-face position. But if you want missionary position to be more orgasmic, add in focused clitoral stimulation. His hands will be occupied propping himself up, so you are in charge! Drop your hand in between your bodies and stimulate your own clitoris as he moves inside you. A lot of women are shy about touching themselves during sex; if you can get over this emotional hurdle, you will be able to experience a lot of pleasure. Most guys are incredibly turned on by seeing you touch yourself for more pleasure, and the sex will become a lot more fun with the added clitoral stimulation. Another option is to use a small vibrator, tucking it between your labia and clitoris so it stimulates your clitoris with every thrust!
- Ride, Cowgirl, Ride! Get on top and you can tap into incredibly orgasmic sex. There is no question that getting on top during sex is an emotional challenge; check out our complete guide on the Cowgirl Position for more advice on mastering the art of this sex position. Once you are comfortable having sex with you on top, you can learn how to move in ways that maximize your own pleasure. You can ride just the tip of his penis to maximize stimulation of your g-spot (which is just an inch or two inside your body!) or angle the thrusting so the curve of his penis strokes your g-spot again and again. And don't forget your clitoris! In this position, either you or your lover (or a trusty well placed vibrator) can stimulate your clitoris as you ride your way to orgasmic heights. For many women this is the best sex position for female orgasm — take a ride or two and find out if it will work for you.
- Unleash The Tiger Tiger position is another name for doggy style, because many women, including yours truly, prefer to be a tiger than a dog. But anyway you name it, this sex position can be one of the best for female orgasms. Getting on your hands and knees can make you feel wild and unleash your inner erotic animal. You'll be able to move your hips and arch your back to express your pleasure. Plus, this style of penetration allows your man to hit your g-spot with every thrust. You can easily reach back and stimulate your own clitoris as you buck in pleasure and feel the fabulous vibrations that are created in your pelvic muscles as he moves into you over and over again.
Remember that the best sex positions for female orgasms are the positions you like best. There is no one formula for great sex, because your body is unique and so are your lovers. Finding the best fit together is yours to discover. Plus, your body and its abilities will change over time. Never give up exploring new ways to move together and discover how to pleasure one another anew every time. For more on how to explore positions for maximum pleasure, check out this free podcast episode: Positions For Maximum Pleasure.
If you are ready to unlock more pleasure and unleash your orgasms, visit us at PleasureMechanics.com and join the thousands of men and women who are using our proven techniques and expert advice to have the best sex of their lives! An amazing sex life is possible, and we are here to guide you every step of the way.
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