5 Fun Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life After 50

Love, Sex

So you're over 50 and you want to put some extra sizzle into your relationship? Here's how!

Here are 5 fun ways to spice up your sex life after 50:

1. No more quickies!

Take your time. Remember foreplay can happen at dinner engaging the senses of sight, smell and taste. And if you listen to music and brush up against your partner when you cook, said dinner also engages the senses of sound and touch. There's the makings of a great beginning, middle and maybe even ending!

2. Keep Yourself Limber.

Take a partner yoga class together. Keeping yourself limber outside the bedroom has the potential to keep the creative juices flowing inside the bedroom.

3. Shower Together.

Take a shower together! Not that quick morning one, though that can be fun, and maybe can even get the juices going for later on. But how about a long luxurious one? Together. With soap. Can't get much wetter, or slippery than that.

4. Orgasmic Meditation.

Try Orgasmic Meditation.  It is a practice that can get you super tuned into each other. There is a stroker and a strokee, and involves clitoral stimulation done in a very particular way. A contained way that allows for the experience to be just what it is. And if I'm making you curious, there is a way to learn more!

5. Lube, Lube And More Lube!

Use lube, lube and more lube! Forget the spit—that was maybe useful in your 20's. Yoni's Bliss (Yoni is Sanskrit for vagina and rhymes with pony) is all natural and has homeopathic ingredients that help—plus it's odorless, tasteless and feels like you!

And sometimes you need a little help, and sometimes you just want it. Having it by the bedside, (or wherever the adventure takes you) just gives you a lot more options.


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