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3 UNMISTAKABLE Signs A Man's In Love With You

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3 UNMISTAKABLE Signs a Man's in Love With You
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When you want to know if a man is in love with you, it doesn't matter what he says. What matters is what he does.

For men, love is a verb. So, when he's in love with you, he takes action.

With that in mind, here are 3 actions that are clear signs that he's in love with you:

1. He wants to see you all the time.

Men are all about momentum. From the moment he meets you and gets your number, does he call you right away and makes an effort to see you? If he does, then he's on his way to being in love with you.

If he can wait a few weeks to see you or sees you once and then waits for another month, he doesn't have momentum and he's wasting your time.

So the first thing to look for is if he has momentum.

2. He escalates the relationship by introducing you to people. 

Many guys start out fast. They want to see you all the time, but then they suddenly vanish.

A guy who's falling in love with you wants to build something with you.

This means that he wants to do a variety of things with you like meet his friends and his family. He makes you feel included when it comes to his life.

Escalation means he's not just dating and having sex with you. He's building a life with you and adding complexity to what you do together.

3. He feels responsible for you and wants to be exclusive.

When a man falls in love with you, he suddenly wants to give up his freedom (something that many men value so highly) and be responsible for you.

This simply means that he takes your feelings into account and there are no sudden disappearing acts. He makes and keeps agreements with you without hesitation.

When a man falls in love with you, being in a relationship is his idea. He asks you to be exclusive because he doesn't want to lose you. He has momentum and is goal-oriented. His goal is to be with you.

He invites you into his life and you feel the relationship is escalating. You sense that he cares about how you feel and he welcomes the responsibility to make long-range plans with you. These are the signs to tell if a man is in love with you.

James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after dating and relationship coach for STRONG women based in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love. If you're a smart woman struggling to achieve relationship success, check out the treasure trove of men's secrets to fall in love in Dating Advice for Alpha Women.

 

This article was originally published at jamesallenhanrahan.com. Reprinted with permission from the author.