Don't overthink it.
Are you single... again? It’s not the end of the world if you are.
If you’re looking to find a new mate (or even a casual fling), it’s not nearly as hard to find someone as it might seem. You know that old expression, "there’s someone for everyone?"
Well, it’s true… and some of the nuttiest, ugliest and most mean-spirited people out there can find a really beautiful person to call their own in no time.
1. Be as beautiful as you can be.
We’re not saying perfectly good looks are all that matter, and we’re not even saying you have to look like Hugh Jackman to find a date. But yeah, you do have to take care of yourself. Keep up on your hygiene, dress to impress, and focus on your best features.
If you have great eyes that you’re still hiding behind glasses, now it the perfect time to ditch them for good with lasik eye surgery. This will allow you feel more natural, look more attractive and not have to deal with the hang-ups of glasses on a daily basis.
This will also endear sexier people to you, while also letting you be yourself and feel more attractive internally.
2. Always project success.
Let your ambition shine. Don’t focus on failures or how you’re idling between careers. Instead, talk about the things you love in life and how you are pursuing your goals.
Everyone appreciates a person who is in control of his or her life and is benefiting from the hard work they put into it. The more creative or powerful you appear to others, the more you appeal to their sense of need and desire.
In contrast, singles who lack ambition don’t offer any special quality. All they really have going for them is their looks.
3. Be smart and interesting in conversation.
The only thing that can stop you now, as a well-groomed and successful person, is if you’re an absolute bore in conversation. So try to be interesting… and that doesn’t mean just asking questions or making jokes (even though everyone loves to laugh),
Invest time in learning about the world, current events, more about your hobbies, craft or career. And don’t stop there.
Learn more about world culture, cuisine, books or films, health, plants and animal life. It never hurts to be well read and if you can combine good humor with deep knowledge that’s even better.
Most people who are single are open-minded to falling in love again or for the first time. They just want to meet someone with whom they have a connection. Present yourself with confidence and your sex appeal will shine.