Can You Make Someone Love You?

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Can You Make Someone Love You?
Are you using the law of attraction to make a certain person love you? This is why it doesn't work.
Are you using the law of attraction to make a certain person love you? This is why it doesn't work.

A big misconception about using the law of attraction to get what you want in your life is that you can use techniques to make a specific person love you and want a relationship with you. I get so many emails and requests for tips on how to make a person love them, be more interested in them or finally commit to them. Sorry, but you can only use your will toward yourself; you cannot manipulate others to love you.

A big misconception about using the law of attraction to get what you want in your life is that you can use techniques to make a specific person love you and want a relationship with you. I get so many emails and requests for tips on how to make a person love them, be more interested in them or finally commit to them. Sorry, but you can only use your will toward yourself; you cannot manipulate others to love you.

When it comes to dating, you may have had an experience that felt like someone had influenced you to fall for them. Sure, you can succumb to their charms and become powerless to their words but you always have a choice. Even though it doesn’t seem like it, you are always in control of who you choose to love. Attraction usually not a conscious choice, but you can’t allow infatuation to occur without your permission on some level.

If you do like someone and want them to want you, there are some things you can do that will support your desires. Ultimately, the person has to choose whether they love you back but you can push them away or draw them closer using the power of your mind and personal energy.

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Debi Berndt is the co-founder of CreativeLove.com, a personal development system for singles to stop fixing themselves and finally find true love. She works with her partner, Dr. Robert Maldonado (Psychologist). Their system was developed based on Carl Jung's work and influenced by Eastern Philosophy.  Debi is also the author of the bestselling book, LET LOVE IN. Get your free lecture and meditation - Why you are single and how to find love without fixing yourself here.

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