Debi  Berndt - Author, Business Coach, Dating Coach, Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Santa Monica, CA
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Debi Berndt (CHT)


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 I am the author of the bestselling new book, LET LOVE IN: OPEN YOUR HEART & MIND TO ATTRACT YOUR IDEAL PARTNER (Wiley 2010) nominated by for BEST DATING BOOK IN 2010! I am the co-founder of Creative Love(r) with my partner, Dr. Roberto Maldonado, psychologist and relationship and Jungian specialist.

I've been around block in love as well as in the media. My work has been featured by ABC News, ABC Radio Network, FOX News, NBC News, COSMOPOLITAN, NATURAL HEALTH, PUBLISHER'S WEEKLY, COMPLETE WOMAN, PLAYBOY RADIO and many more media outlets. I am also a highly-trained certified clinical hypnotherapist and certified life coach and instructor at the Creative Love Coaching Academy.

I have helped thousands of single men and woman across the world find true love with by creating Conscious Chemistry (tm) with the person who is meant for the true you.. Visit my Love Advice Blog and get a free downloadable Why You Are Single Video Series at I live in Santa Monica, CA with the love of my life, Robert, and my business partner. Who knew that after 40, I could find a man this smart, sexy and wonderful. I know you can too!

The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

I wasn't always a dating expert. Just like Thomas Edison had to try a thousand times before he discovered the light bulb, I had to suffer over a thousand heartaches before I finally got my love life on track and met my wonderful life partner. My search for love has lead me down a path to help others increase confidence, discover their passion and get their mind in the right place to attract the love they deserve. I started this work in 2000 and have been helping people ever since to discover their own inner beauty and gifts so that they can attract what they are worthy of in life.

I approach my work as a partner in your quest for love from the standpoint of someone who has been out there and knows how hard it is. I know the heartache, the depression, the feeling left out, the infatuations with Mr. Wrongs and the meaningless flings that I convinced myself would turn into something more. I’ve been there and it can be extremely frustrating and lonely being single. You see, you have all the knowledge already at this point. You know what you need to do, you just need to find a way to love yourself unconditionally.

You are not broken or need to be fixed. All you have to do is realize that and relationships will be much easier for you. Our Creative Love Process uses a unique three-part process including my ground-breaking advanced visualizations. It helps you retrain your thinking which leads to the actions and feelings that drive your experience. By discovering how wonderful you are on the inside, you will soon emulate that image out into the world.

My program is developed by psychologist Dr. Roberto Maldonado using the latest research in social neuroscience, western psychology and eastern philosophy. Much of our program is based on the work of Carl Jung and the individuation process.

You don't have to fix yourself or play dating games. No more games, no rules of conduct, just simply stepping into your power as an amazing person. No matter what happened in the past, in this moment you can be the wonderful you.

Debi Berndt

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Time in Practice:

10 years +

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All areas, please inquire

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Business Coach

Dating Coach


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Relationship Coach


YourTango Expert Partner

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Articles by Debi Berndt
Always Getting Rejected? 3 Ways To Love Yourself Anyway

Always Getting Rejected? 3 Ways To Love Yourself Anyway

Defining yourself by others isn't going to make you feel good about yourself!

Healthy Relationships: Leave Behind Bad Relationship Behavior

Quit The Blame Game & Ditch Bad Relationship Behaviors For Good

Leave the drama in the past … where it belongs!

Commitment: To Find Love You Must Not Be Afraid Of It

Pop Your Comfort Bubble & Open Up To Love

Are you afraid of being alone or afraid of being loved?

Are You Ready For Commitment?

The Real Reason You Haven't Found Your Perfect Partner

Your actions show how much you really want love.

Relationship Expert: Are You Too Old For Love?

You're Never Too Old For True Love!

Afraid you're too old for love? Find out how to let go of deadlines.

Check Out My New Book
Let Love In: Open Your Heart and Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner
The real key to attracting lasting love and it ...
By Debra Berndt

Debi Berndt

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Anxiety Issues, Chronic Pain/Disability or Illness, Communication Problems, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Empowering Women, Energy Psychology, Financial Stress, Life Management, Marriage, NLP, Phobias/OCD, Self-Esteem, Spiritual, Stress Management, Trust Issues, Worry