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4 Ways We Should All Aspire To Be More Like Porn Stars

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4 Ways We Should All Aspire To Be More Like Porn Stars [EXPERT]
Even grandma can learn a thing or two.
As it happens, you can learn a lot from the world's most unlikely role models.

When it comes to dating, matchmaking and attraction, one key area of compatibility is sexual attitudes, and having similar sexual desires and libido. It seems that porn stars have figured out the secret to matching sexual desires. There are assumptions made about porn stars being avid drug users, having poor self-image and low self-esteem. On the contrary, a recent study proves otherwise.

Research published in the latest edition of the Journal of Sex Research suggests that "porn stars have higher self-esteem, a better quality of life and body image and are more spiritual than their non-adult entertainment counterparts." Let's learn some lessons from porn stars, in order to take our bedroom behavior to new heights.

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Lesson #1: Be willing to try anything. If there's a common denominator when it comes to porn, it's that almost anything goes. In other words, you can expect to see a lot of sex enjoyed in a variety of positions and places and penetration happening in every possible orifice.

Sometimes there is loads of foreplay. Other times, it's wham bam! So, whatever you are in the mood for, the tip to remember is to be open-minded and have the attitude of exploration and experimentation ... that is, as long as you're with a partner you trust. When you adopt that "anything goes" attitude, you create an increased level of excitement, especially when you introduce positions, places and sex toys that are new to your typical routine.

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Lesson #2: Dirty talk works wonders. What makes porn hot is that the porn stars vocalize their appreciation and enjoyment of every activity taking place. They describe each action and each body part. Using descriptive vocabulary is a huge turn-on and will heighten the experience as you enjoy the moments. Continue Reading ...

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