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5 Ways to make a blow job more efficient
Ok, I know – men NEVER want to hear the words “B.J. and efficient” together in once sentence. But, honestly guys, we know some of you NEVER get one. So, these tips are for those women who just HATE to give the B.J. and rarely or even NEVER give one. At our home parties in the Bay Area, we ...Your Orgasm is Your Responsibility.
Your orgasm is your responsibility. It's your job to have one, not someone's job to give you one. And, as Dr. Lissa Rankin says in her new book "What's Up Down There" Lissa says "You can't effort yourself into an orgasm; you simply let go.Release expectation. Allow your body to feel what feels good." I feel ...If you are bored with your sex life, then do something about it now
3 Ways to Beat the Boredom in your own Boudoir. It's my opinion, if you are feeling like things are a little stale in your own love life, your partner is likely bored, too. If you want to bring back that sizzle and zesty sex life you two use to have, then find some way to bring back that element of surprise, ...Sex Toys: Not Just for Bad Girls Anymore
Sex Toys are NOT just for the "bad girls" anymore. It's hard for me to even conceive that people (well, Americans) use to think that you had to be a horny nympho to want to own a sex toy. I am a sex toy expert and I have made a career of selling sex toys, so maybe I have a whole different view of the world. But, I ...Lube Gives Love a Bad Name
Maybe you're like me and you use to think you HATE lube. I know I thought I hated it for years and years and avoided it at all costs. The lubes I had tried on occasion left me feeling itchy, uncomfortable and like I had to jump out of bed and into the shower to wash it all off. What I did not understand at the ...MY QUESTIONS
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- Well, "normal" is very relative. Most men last around 7 minutes once their fully engaged in vaginal, anal or oral sex. But, some men are quicker and some men last much longer.
Has your partner checked in with his doctor to make sure he is healthy and everything is working properly? Will he share with you how quickly he can finish through masturbation?
I have met men who take their kegel exercises to an extreme and that can sometimes to cause them to last a VERY long time.
Can you share some more details here? How long is he lasting? How old is he? SEE MORE
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- I often say that giving someone oral sex is the HIGHEST COMPLIMENT you can pay them. It's a sign (like one of the other people commented) that you are REALLY into that person. It's the "opposite of rejection" like he said above. And, as I commented before, ENTHUSIASM is key here.
And, btw, it turns out that some women also enjoy oral sex VERY MUCH, too. SEE MORE
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- Hi there,
Most EVERYONE prefers enthusiasm when it comes to oral sex. Men, especially! Remember their penis is their universe. Putting your mouth on their penis and testicles is the HIGHEST compliment you can pay someone. When I do co-ed parties men always say "don't forget the balls" - be sure you are gentle with them but they do like alot of gentle and wet attention there. Be sure to give lots of eye and smile some. It should look like you're enjoying yourself. :) SEE MORE
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- Hi, This is one of the most common questions we get at our home pleasure parties at on my radio show. It is nearly impossible for women to orgasm from intercourse. My suggestion is to incorporate a small vibe into your lovemaking. 65 - 90% of wome have most of their orgasms from clitoral stimulation which is why it's so easy to have one from oral and masturbation.
There are lots and lots of small toys that are small enough to use during intercourse and that won't freak out your b/f.
If you would like more tips or to take this offline, you can email me directly or privately. I own an online sex toy store and have a radio show called BetterSexRadio and am a Pleasure Coach. I am sure a small toy will work really really well for you. SEE MORE
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