Real women rarely buy those missile-style vibrators used in porn. Come on – they’re 10″ long and made of hard plastic. Seriously, do you really want to play with something made of hard, cheap plastic that looks more like a baseball bat than something you want inside you?
I have been educating women and couples about sex toys for over 10 years and I’m here to tell you – there is something much better out there! If you haven’t had the time or courage to try out a sex toy, now’s the time. Here are my top 6 sex toys to try before you die:
1. The Original Rabbit Pearl – you may remember this on from a famous episode of “Sex and the City” where Charlotte would refused to leave her penthouse (and her toy) to have brunch. She ultimately needed an intervention, and for good reason! This thing gives women about 3 – 4″ of penetration with simultaneous clitoral stimulation from the rabbit ears. The rotation of the pearls is right around the vaginal entrance, where women have a super concentration of nerve endings. To boot, the rabbit ears hug and tickle the clitoris at the same time – the double stimulation is a magic combo for most ladies.
2. The Hitachi Magic Wand – just about everyone from your grandma to your kid’s school teacher has heard about it. It may not look all that pretty, but it gets the job done. Its original intent was as a “back massager”, but in truth the massager feels good anywhere and everywhere on your body.
3. The Lelo GIGI is a G-spot massager that was actually designed to be pretty. It’s rechargeable, and has a flattened tip that delivers 5 intense levels of vibration to your most sensitive parts. The best part is that it’s super quiet, allowing for really discreet (and orgasmic!) play.
4. The Lelo Nea is compact, versatile, and a whole LOT of fun. It is rechargeable - no batteries required! It fits perfectly over your pubic bone, providing intense clitoral vibration. Bonus: it’s small enough to wear inside your panties and use as a hands-free vibrator when you’re out and about!
5. The Lia Magic Wand is a recent favorite of mine – the vibration is completely different from other toys. It feels more like a Philips Sonic Care toothbrush than a traditional vibrator. It has 10 speeds and a g-spot “bend” to it so you can hit that sweet spot on your own. This toy has two special features I absolutely love – a KILL BUTTON that instantly shuts off the toy in the event someone interrupts your alone time (great for moms with kids!), and it’s smart. Like a good man, this toy remembers your favorite speed. If you like tend to use speed 4, this toy NOTICES it and will automatically start on speed 4.
6. The 5 Speed Bullet is my ALL TIME favorite toy. I love the simplicity and affordability of this little gem. Don’t be fooled by its size though – it has 5 speed and uses a 9 volt battery for lots of power. Oh boy, does it have power! The pulsations and escalations are enough to have you climbing the walls, and I like to joke that Speed 5 is so intense it should only be used for special occasions.
Are there other toys you would add to this “try before you die” list? Share in the comments below!
More about me: I am the owner of an online romance store www.BlissConnection.com and have been selling sex toys and lingerie for the last 10 years. I just opened a brand new plus size lingerie store in San Jose called Curvy Girl Lingerie. We focus on plus size lingerie and helping women to get in touch with all of the pleasure your body is capable of!