The Sad Reason Why Your Zodiac Sign Lost 'The ONE'

When you find The One, it can change your life completely.

You might turn into the type of person to be so happy that you could skip everywhere you go or you might have a permanent smile on your face.

That said, love can be very tricky. One minute you might be totally in love and the next, you’d rather not deal with them at all.

But even if you have fights or disagree on things, being with your soulmate can make all the ups and downs worth it.

But even if your relationship is going great, you might still be working out some issues in your own life.

Maybe you’ve been falling behind at work and the stress is getting to you, or maybe you haven’t been feeling like yourself for a while now and you need to step back and reevaluate your life.

But these things can happen subconsciously, meaning that while it might not seem like a huge deal to you, it’s actually taking a toll on your relationship.

When you lose the one your soul longs for, it can be devastating.

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Some zodiac signs always have their guard up and aren’t very surprised when things start to fall apart, while others feel like this heartbreak is coming out of left field.

No matter which sign you are, it can be almost impossible to see this kind of heartbreak coming.

You always assume that you will be with The One forever; that’s probably why so many of the signs stop trying so hard.

Relationships take constant work and if you aren’t going to make the effort, then you can’t be surprised if it all goes away.

So, keep reading to find out why your sign lost The One. Maybe if you know what went wrong, you can start making amends with the love of your life and yourself.

1ARIES (Mar 21 - Apr 19)

Finding someone to love can be easy for Aries at first because she already knows the type of person she's looking for in a partner.

She gravitates towards people who are already close friends of hers rather than strangers because the bond is that much stronger.

However, just because she's in a relationship, it doesn't mean her restlessness goes away. In fact, it can be this need to change things up and try something new that can be her downfall.

It's hard enough already to keep up with her, but add this constant need for more and it makes her an impossible partner.

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries (As Written By An Aries)

2TAURUS (Apr 20 - May 20)

Taurus understands that everyone needs time to find their groove in a new relationship, but once she gets comfortable, it's like a light switches on inside of her.

All of a sudden, she has huge expectations for her partner that they can't keep track of.

Taurus is a very "love, marriage, babies" type of person who believes that relationships have timelines with milestones in certain places.

But what she can't wrap her head around is that relationships are fluid and should not be an impossible to enjoy. 

READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus (As Written By A Taurus)

3GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

It might seem cute at first for a Gemini to be indecisive about everything - cuddle first or sex first, movies in bed or going out to eat on Friday night - but this quickly gets old when her partner realizes this is how she always acts.

It may not seem like a big deal, but when serious discussions come up, she always flakes. 

Gemini does try when it comes to relationships, but there's something about commitment that freaks her out.

She doesn't often see herself as someone who can take charge in situations, which leaves her permanently in the back seat, even when it concerns her own life. 

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)

4CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

Cancer’s intuitive personality makes her an emotionally stable partner, which can be rare, but she has to remember that her partner is still their own person.

The more she tries to "relate" to all of their problems, the more she absorbs a mindset that makes her feel responsible for everything that happens. 

Soon, she starts making decisions for herself and her partner, using language like "we" even if things don't concern her, and suffocating the relationship unconsciously.

While it isn't deliberate, her actions can make current and subsequent relationships harder. 

READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer (As Written By A Cancer)

5LEO (July 23 - Aug 22)

Leo has very specific tastes and preferences when it comes to relationships, but that only intensifies as her partner gets to know her better.

Instead of learning how to share her life with someone, she can let selfishness dictate the relationship. 

She can be the type of person who won't accept apologies or mistakes, believing that serious relationships should already have all the kinks worked out.

It isn't fair for her partner at all to be held to these standards, but Leo doesn't see it as selfishness; only as "quirks" that everyone is supposed to grow to love. 

READ: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo (As Written By A Leo)

6VIRGO (Aug 23 - Sep 22)

Virgo desperately wants to make a serious relationship work, if only to prove to herself that she can.

She might abandon her own values to please her partner or constantly put her relationship before her own needs, but either way, she loses herself in the process. 

While this isn't necessarily terrible for her partner, she will eventually realize just how unhappy she is.

Even if she is madly in love with her partner, she will leave the relationship just to save herself from total heartbreak later on. 

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

7LIBRA (Sept 23 - Oct 22)

Libra loves being the mediator, making sure everyone is happy, but what people forget is that she can sometimes try to take control of situations if she knows that everyone is counting on her.

Sure, she doesn't want any discord in her relationship, but it's twice as rewarding for her if she can persuade her partner to agree with her all the time. 

If her partner is smitten with her, it can be hard for them to see what she's doing, but it's more apparent in public. Libra will constantly speak for her partner, try to change their values, and even attempt to make them act more like her.

What Libra really wants is someone to always praise her, no matter what it does to her relationship. 

READ: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra (As Written By A Libra)

8SCORPIO (Oct 23 - Nov 21)

Scorpio often gets pigeonholed into being a nymphomaniac because she likes casual relationships over serious ones, but it's only because she doesn't believe she can make a serious relationship work.

Having this preconceived image of herself in everyone's minds only makes it harder for partners to take her seriously when she talks about love. 

This mindset can do a lot of damage to Scorpio’s confidence and her relationships because oftentimes, she'll just stop trying to make things work.

Instead of learning how to fight for the love she absolutely deserves, Scorpio will end up turning into a hollow shell of herself because it takes less effort. 

READ: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)

9SAGITTARIUS (Nov 22 - Dec 19)

Sagittarius loves her freedom, so it's rare to see one of these signs in a serious relationship (or saying the word love at all), but it doesn't mean she doesn't want it.

That said, always being untethered and irresponsible doesn't just stop when she does fall in love. 

Because her biggest fear is losing herself in a relationship, her attitude about commitment and love can turn her into a passive being.

Instead of being all in, she'll stop caring what happens in her relationship, making her partner feel like they don't matter at all. 

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius (As Written By One)

10CAPRICORN (Dec 20 - Jan 19)

Capricorn either expects the worst or she expects too much, too soon. When the relationship is still new, she will expect everything to crumble because she doesn't have a lot of faith in her ability to make it work.

But once she realizes there is hope for the future of her relationship, she can get way too egotistical. 

Suddenly, Capricorn goes from no hope at all to thinking that she's the sh*t basically overnight.

Her ego can make it hard for her to see that a relationship means both people have to work equally as hard and if she's too focused on herself, she isn't caring about her partner at all. 

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn (As Written By One)

11AQUARIUS (Jan 20 - Feb 18)

Aquarius is always nervous about relationships because she is afraid that her feelings will change about the person and she won't feel that special connection with them anymore.

This is such a big fear for her that she would rather not let herself get in too deep instead letting her guard down.

Love is a very scary concept to Aquarius, which is why she always tries to protect herself from heartbreak before there is any.

It can make her seem very distant and cold, but she often doesn't care, as long as she doesn't get hurt. 

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius (As Written By One)

12PISCES (Feb 19 - Mar 20)

Pisces hates have any kind of discord in her relationships and will go so far as to pretend nothing is wrong, even if it’s eating at her.

Her reason for doing this is equal parts not wanting to have any confrontation and not wanting to upset her partner.

This might not be very obvious at the beginning of the relationship, but soon you will notice a pattern with her behavior.

Even if she loves you to death, she would rather risk losing you altogether than suck it up and have a difficult conversation.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces (As Written By A Pisces)