The Cold HARD Truth About What It's Like To 'Peg' A Guy

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The Cold HARD Truth About Why Guys Like Pegging, How To Do It & How It Feels As The Woman Strapping It On
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If you haven’t been keeping up on your Broad City, aren't on Tinder or don’t like watching porn in general, then you might not know that pegging is a huge trend right now.

Pegging means the female (usually) uses a strap-on dildo and penetrates the man (usually) anally.

 

I’m super happy about this trend!

Not because I’m super into pegging, which we’ll discuss later, but because it means straight males are growing out of the idea that putting anything close to their butt makes them gay. Yay people being comfortable with their bodies and allowing themselves pleasure!

So here's the low-down on pegging and why it feels good, how you can try it, and how it worked out for me ...

1. Why It Feels Good

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Welcome to the quickest anatomy lesson ever! Like the g-spot in women, men have a “p-spot” and guess where it is? What, what, (it’s in) the butt!

The prostate gland, located about two inches into the anus on the front wall, is responsible for making cum creamy and is also provides men with totally pleasurable sensations. Fun fact: prostate stimulation is referred to as “milking” the prostate.

 

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2. How To Do It

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Pegging is most commonly performed with a strap-on and a dildo, but could also be done with an anal toy — harness or not. I have a harness and paired it with a realistic, but on the slim side, dildo. 

Take all the typical warm-up steps you would for any anal sex, including asking your partner to poop in advance — this is important! It will make them more comfortable and will probably save you some messy cleanup.

Make sure your partner is ready and do not make the dildo the first thing that’s inserted! When you’re ready to play, use a finger, then two, then work up to a toy.

Use lots of lube and when your partner feels ready, add some extra lube to the dildo and to them, then have them take a deep breath. Stand behind your partner and with them bending over and spreading their cheeks. Using your hand (even if you have a harness) guide the dildo into their butt, slowly but also smoothly. Make sure they keep breathing deeply — especially if it's a new sensation for them.

Ask them what they want and give them less/more/deeper/faster depending on what how they respond.

 

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3. What I Thought When I Tried It

Honestly, I wasn’t that thrilled.

First of all, I don’t think my partner had any idea how to prepare. I honestly don’t even think he took a sh*t first and he hadn’t shaved and it was just not a prime or pink butt-hole.

Though I have a well-fit harness and the dildo I got isn’t too big, it felt really awkward and I felt like other than the in/out direction, I had very little control. For example, I couldn’t easily switch positions or come all the way out of him and insert the dildo back in again.

He liked it, though, and it's always satisfying to make your partner happy. Were I to do it again, I’d make sure I had some sort of insertable dildo in myself or even a butt plug, so I'd get some fun out of it too. They also make strap-ons that are double sided, which I think will be my next buy.

Verdict: I’m happy I tried it, but won’t be doing it again unless I feel like I’m getting off during pegging too.

 

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This article was originally published at Slutty Girl Problems. Reprinted with permission from the author.

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