What Guys REALLY Think About Squirting (It Will Surprise You!)

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Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do men think about female ejaculation?”

 

Straight Married Guy (Figleaf): 

Good question but hard to answer. I think the most important thing you can say about female ejaculation is that the best-selling book that introduced the idea of G-spot orgasms and female ejaculation, The G Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality, has a whole chapter devoted to the principle that “the best is the enemy of the good.”

The authors worried specifically that if people obsess over having or (worse, I think) giving G-spot orgasms, they’re likely to wind up disappointed with their ordinary old eye-rolling, breathtaking, toe-curling ones.

I’ve had sex with a couple of partners who “squirt” at least some of the time. And while obviously everyone’s mileage varies, I never got the impression from them that those orgasms were any more enjoyable, or less, than the “regular” kind.

 

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Straight Single Guy (David Grossman): 

Female ejaculation is the greatest compliment a woman can give to her partner. It doesn’t take much to make a man climax, but being able to make a woman ejaculate is a skill and an honor.

 

READ: How To (TRY TO) Female Ejaculate

 

Gay Married Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): 

Ew.

 

 

This article was originally published at Em & Lo. Reprinted with permission from the author.

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