You are everything to him.
You think you know but you can’t be sure: are you his number one priority? And are men's priorities all the same?
You study his body language and you observe his actions, especially when they’re directly related to you. You really listen to what he says because you know that subtext is where the real information lies.
It seems as if he’s pretty into you, but are you at the top of his list? Does he consider your needs equally, if not more so, than his own?
We all want to know where we stand, especially in relationships, but it can be difficult to get a read on his behavior in regards to ourselves. Some men are easy to read and others, not so much.
You could just ask him directly, but if it’s early in the relationship, you might scare him off and that’s the last thing you want to do. And it’s not fair to tell him that he’s your number one priority just to get him to say it about you. You don’t want to be manipulative like that or pretend to feel something that you’re not sure you feel.
If your plan is to just wait it out, you may never get the answers you seek and will just get increasingly annoyed.
Another option is to just over-analyze every single thing he does in hopes that you’ll be able to interpret his behavior as validation that he cares about you above all else, but that’s kind of a time suck. And if you’re not a professional psychologist you might misinterpret everything.
Astrology can give you some insight into his behavior since the individuals born under each zodiac sign share certain similarities. Once you know the signs that you’re the most important thing in his life, you’ll be able to relax and appreciate things much better.
This is how you know you’re his top priority, based on his zodiac sign.
He's taken on your interests and hobbies. He wasn't that into going to the gym before or rock climbing, but since you're into it, now he is as well. He wants to spend as much time as possible with you and knowing that you enjoy something makes him enjoy it, too. And if he can't participate, he'll be there to cheer you on.
You both have unbelievably busy lives and he guards the time you have together. He won't schedule anything that might prevent your date night and makes sure that you see as much of each other as possible.
He loves hearing about your life and is constantly asking questions to get to know you. You fascinate him on every level and he's greedy to learn about the real you. If there was a class on you, he'd be an A student and do all the extra credit just because he couldn't get enough on the subject of you.
He knows that a relationship is like a garden and that if you don't take care of it, it will wither and die. So he makes sure to take care of the garden that is your relationship. He texts you just to say hello, he does errands for you to make your life easier, and he fixes things without being asked.
He doesn't assume that he no longer needs to make a good impression on you. He wants to look good and act right so that you don't get bored or fed up with him. He knows he's extremely lucky to have you in his life and he's not going to take you or your needs for granted.
What's cool about him is that not only is he interested in you, he remembers every little detail about you. He pays attention and uses that information to treat you like a queen. You don't have to worry about being served veal at his house if you once told him in an off-handed way that eating veal makes you cry.
He listens to you when you talk about your beliefs and opinions, and when he doesn't agree with you, he doesn't put you down for having an opposing opinion. He respects you and what you believe in and he reconsiders his position about them, even if he doesn't end up changing his mind about them.
He doesn't miss a thing about you. While many people may look at your life in terms of the big picture, he notices everything, even the smallest of details. You might say that you're fine, but if your body language says differently, he's going to see it.
He's not a huge mystery to you because when he let you into his life, he decided that he wouldn't hide anything from you. He cares enough to show you the good and the bad about himself and trusts that it won't scare you away.
He makes a ton of compromises and sacrifices for you. He tends to like to live his life in a straightforward and orderly manner, but since he got together with you, he's had to become more flexible and open. Whereas normally work would be his first priority, now you are and this is a huge change for him.
He makes sure that you feel welcomed and a part of any gathering of his friends or family. His squad is your squad and this gesture of inclusion speaks to how much he wants you to be part of his life permanently.
You know that he's thinking about you all the time because he mentions how often he dreams about you and how much your presence in his life has affected his work. You are his inspiration and his joy and he can't keep it contained; he has to let the world know how happy you make him.