Everyone has their downfall.
It's no secret that we all like to cut loose and get down in the bedroom. We could be having the worst day, and just a few minutes in the sack could turn it all around. Even the best day EVER could be made better with a little lovin' from your special someone.
Sex is arguably one of the most intimate experiences in life, making it something not to take lightly. It's also one of the greatest forms of self-expression. Telling your boyfriend or girlfriend that you love them is a big step in your relationship, but there's no better way to show your significant other how you feel about them than by proving it to them physically.
Clearly, sex is a pretty important part of any lasting relationship. While it doesn't need to be the main focus of a relationship, it's still quite a significant aspect. So, it's a pretty good idea to be aware of your downsides in the bedroom and how to improve upon them.
Admit it ... EVERYONE has a downside. You can't have pleased everyone you've been with 100% of the time. So what is it that you could be working on to make it THAT MUCH BETTER?
Well, we may not have ALL the answers but one thing is for sure: If you take a peek at your zodiac, the traits that come along with it and how you can relate, then you may discover a thing or two about yourself (AND your sex life) that you may not have noticed before.
The things YOU do wrong in the bedroom have proven time and time again to be different for each of the zodiac signs, so look below to see what you should get to work on so you can have your BEST. SEX. EVER.
You need to slow down and focus on having a good time. Sex isn't a competition, so quit being so impatient and just ENJOY the ride (pun intended). That’ll better the experience for both you and your partner, and guarantee you BOTH have a memorable time.
It’s not always all about YOU and what YOU want. Taurus, you can be pretty stubborn sometimes, so you need to listen to what your partner wants, too. Even if it’s not necessarily what you want to do right now, you need to be more open to compromise.
Plus, you might learn a thing or two.
There’s nothing worse than an inconsistent lover. Focus on what makes you and your partner happy. Try to show the same amount of affection and exert a similar amount of energy every time. Your efforts won’t go unnoticed ... promise. Just make sure your head is in the game so you can have the best time you possibly can.
It’s time to gain some real, unbridled confidence in the bedroom. Your insecurities are holding you back — especially in bed. It sucks that your partner always has to reassure you that you’re making them feel good — so just own it!
Afraid you're going to mess something up? Don't be. We all have blunders in the bedroom. Laugh it off, then move on to other things.
Unlike Cancers, you tend to have a little TOO much confidence in the bedroom. Modesty speaks volumes, and arrogance has a tendency to be highly unflattering.
Stop telling — PROVE you’re the best they’ve ever had. If you put in the work, you'll be fine.
Yes, there’s always room for improvement ... even in bed. BUT, that doesn’t mean that you constantly need to put your opinion out there and switch everything up. Being overly critical of yourself and your partner in the bedroom is easily your biggest downfall.
So try to keep SOME things to yourself when it comes to sex. No one is perfect, you know. Just enjoy and love all that ... imperfectness.
A lover who doesn’t know what they want is a VERY difficult lover to please (TRUST me). Do yourself a favor and figure out what you’re actually looking for in the bedroom — it’ll make all the difference.
And if you don't know ... say it. Honesty is key.
You need to let go whatever trust issues you have and put yourself ALL in. Halfway doesn't cut it in this department. Sex is one of the most intimate experiences in life and you need to have complete and total trust in your partner, so giving all of yourself is exactly what you need in order to be able to take your bedroom romp to the next level.
Whatever you do, don’t talk yourself up to the point that you’re going to disappoint your partner. Nobody wants a lover who promises more than they can deliver. If anything, knock yourself down a few pegs so you’ll catch them by surprise!
Setting expectations can only lead to failure, so just focus on doing the deed and the rest will come.
It’s no secret that sex doesn’t necessarily always go as planned. Some experiences are better than others, but your attitude definitely has an affect on it overall. Have a good outlook on your love life, it’ll make all the difference. ESPECIALLY if something goes wrong.
We get it. It's embarrassing. You want everything to be perfect and COMPLETELY memorable, but in real life things don't always work out that way. So make the best with what you have and laugh off the rest.
I know, I know, sharing your emotions is not something you’re very good at. But when it comes to sex, the best way to go is to show how you feel. It’ll make the connection with your partner stronger and make your experience much more enjoyable.
Plain old sex can be fun, but REALLY makes it UNFORGETTABLE is when you have that intimate connection with a person you trust ... but in order to do that, you need to open up a little more than you're doing now.
It’s not always easy for you to see the bright side of things. It’s tough dealing with it in everyday life, and it’s no different in the bedroom either. You need to focus on making yourself and your partner happy.
Look, you may not enjoy doing THIS thing they want or they may not be as good doing THAT thing, but just have fun and be in the moment (and STOP thinking it through so much!) Sex is an incredible thing – let it take over so you can forget about the rest of the world for a while.