Women Come Clean About Their HOT Girl-On-Girl Sexual Experiences

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They didn't hold back.

Nothing drives me more nuts than straight women talking about their "girl crushes". 

You know, when they, a straight woman, have a crush on another woman. You know what's actually called? A CRUSH.



Saying "girl crush" is the equivalent of a dude telling another dude he loves him and then tacking on "no homo", to the end of the sentiment. You're better than that. 

Girl-on-girl love and lesbian sex are real things. And neither one is always pink and cutesy.

Lesbian sex can be fierce, passionate, and just as ribald (if not more so) as straight sex. 

To prove that point, we asked an anonymous group of real women to talk about their experiences with lesbian sex. They opened up like WHOA and now you get to reap all the benefits. Enjoy.


1. Tell me a little bit about first realizing you were attracted to women.
  • "I got a crush on a girl with no middle name, who kicked my ass at Smash Brothers."
  • "Age 4, when I saw my dad's Playboy by accident."
  • "The curviness .. being able to love so much."
  • "I was 12. I fell for the girl who lived next door. I didn't really understand what was going on."
  • "I kissed a girl on a date and liked it."
  • "I was definitely always attracted to women, but couldn't admit it until I was 19. Thankfully, this isn't because of homophobia or fear about my safety. Girls and women were really cruel to me as a teen and preteen and I couldn't admit to my self that I was attracted to the people who bullied me as a kid."
  • "I used to practice kissing and petting with my friends when I was fairly young. I never really grew out of wanting to kiss girls."
  • "It was a slow realization - my father imprinted a lot of his sexuality onto me with giving approval and consideration to what he found beautiful and desirable. It wasn't until someone explained "gay" to me that I said, 'Oh, well, I like girls too, what does that make me?'"
  • "When I was a pre-teen and watched an incredibly pretty girl perform a solo in a school choir."

2. Who was your first big on-screen same sex crush and why?
  • "Oh man. I didn't really do celebrity crushes growing up? The first female onscreen crush I can remember is Halle Berry."
  • "Sigourney Weaver in Ghostbusters!"
  • "Angelina Jolie."
  • "Marilyn Monroe. She was so pretty and good at all things girly and I was bad at being feminine."
  • "Thora Birch because she's hot."
  • "The chick from Beetlejuice, Lydia. I liked her darkness, but I was really attracted to anyone alternative/goth/different."
  • "It's hard to answer this. I have had a lot of fan-love for actresses, but there have been so few represented as attracted to the same sex, and having been rejected by straight girls, I don't find crushing on them all that much fun. That said, Alicia Silverstone was one of the first early crushes that I actually fantasized about."
  • "Morticia. Do I even have to explain? She and Gomez had love and romance and a whole gothic expression."



3. What's the sexiest quality a woman can have? Why?
  • "Kindness, including and especially to herself. Kindness, but with limits. It's sexy because it's shows emotional intelligence, awareness, compassion, empathy, and strength, all in one."
  • "Confidence, humor, muscles."
  • "Nice full lips..to be able to kiss passionately."
  • "Strength. It's powerful. Women should be powerful."
  • "Actually caring about me because no one really does."
  • "This is where I'm supposed to write "her brain" right? Personally, I am a fan of the slip of skin between a short skirt and high socks. Actually though, it's really sluttiness. I love when someone can one-up me (a fellow slut) I like women who other women don't want to be friends with, women who are a little more masculine and dude like, NOT butch (although thats super hot too) it's not a femme/butch thing it's about being chill, not high strung, no drama, and slutty."
  • "Sexiest: Intelligence and the confidence to use it. Most attractive *to me* (I am shallow when it comes to women): Smallish breasts and a body shape that is *not* apple-like/round."
  • "Delight in helping others triumph for reasons shared between us. Delight on its own is lovely, delight in improving people is lovelier, and if it's for reasons or causes I like? Oooh, that's hot!"
  • "Wisdom and an open mind. I know people go on at length about all the horrible sexist bros in the world, but women soak up the culture around them too. I find it difficult to be close to women who aren't willing to open their minds and learn, regardless of their age."


4. Tell me about the first time you hooked up with a woman. How was it different than hooking up with a man (if you have)? What surprised you? What excited you most?
  • "It was different because it definitely felt safer to go further faster (I was a teen, and the main reason I wasn't jumping on dicks was because my concern of pregnancy was greater than the desire for penile penetration). It's hard to peel off what excited me the most, since I was still pretty new to the sex thing. Touching her, probably."
  • "It's not that different. Vaginas. Boobs. Softness. Lack of a need to prove they're porny masculine gods. Though I've been with women who do that performative "conquerer" thing, too."
  • "The softness, the Sweet kisses, the kindness, the mutual pleasures."
  • "My first sexual experience was mutual masturbation with the girl who lived next door when I was 12. We barely touched each other and didn't kiss. We used her mom's vibrator on each other and it was awkward. And not really any more or less so than my first with a boy, though that was all kissing."
  • "It was with my best friend when we both realized we had crushes on each other. It was softer and more gentle than being with a man. I was surprised that I didn't mind that taste. It was exciting because it was different and new."
  • "The first time I hooked up with a woman it was a gay-for-pay situation which would be a great story, but doesn't answer the question because there was an audience telling us what they wanted us to do. The first time I hooked up with a woman was a threesome and I was deeply surprised how much I loved it, she was not particularly attractive, but her touch was so complex and electric. I am not someone who likes kissing, but I found out it's really that I don't like kissing men. I do like kissing women, and that was a pleasant surprise. Four hands are better than two, and it just felt amazing having so many hands all over me. The thing that I generally find most different (and exciting) when fucking a woman solo vs. having a man involved is how the lack of a biological cock sets the timeline of sex on fire. Yes, I know there is some tantric shit where people can have p in v sex for 8 hours, but for mere mortals there is a timeline to sex and it all revolves around the penis. With another woman, the whole act doesn't center around getting it hard and keeping it hard, you can have sex forever and nothing goes soft or gets rubbed raw."
  • "I hooked up with a high school friend of mine when I went home for spring break my Freshman year of college. Kissing was astounding, but omg, that's when I discovered how amazing breasts are.
  • It was very different. I felt more pressure to be good because, well, we have all the same parts, right? So I should know what makes them work ... but I didn't. I hadn't really explored everything on myself as yet. I think I was surprised at honest sounds of pleasure from a woman, and found that incredibly exciting."


5. You're free to go! Unless, that it, you've got an embarrassing/funny/memorable girl-on-girl sex story to share, that is. That goes here.
  • "My first girlfriend scratched the inside of my vagina pretty badly with her nails! I was wincing for days. Her telling me she was trimming her nails became code for 'I love you', or at least, 'I like fucking you.'"
  • "Frightening my male housemate on a full moon with two other bisexual women and a whole bottle of tequila. We, um, took over the living room. He refused to speak to us for a week. Another time, I and a younger woman really hit it off but I could not date her (or sleep with her) because she was still just under 18 and I was 21 and her mom was very homophobic. That was sad, and by the time we could actually date both of us had moved and distance made it impractical, though we kept in touch for a few years."
  • "My ex and best friend once had a house party, and we spent the whole day getting drunk and high to prepare. Once the guests arrived, we couldn't get our hands off each other. After multiple of her male friends tried to awkwardly shove themselves in to turn it into a threesome, we hid in the bathroom to escape. She pushed me up on the sink and fingered me over and over while twisting my nipples. I could barely stay still, I came explosively and squirted a puddle in the bathroom. When we finally left the bathroom, her kitten licked up the puddle."
  • "Most of my girl-on-girl sex stories are unmemorable, unfortunately. Probably because of the aforementioned shallowness. But I have a funny/embarrassing bisexual pickup story. I was at a bar with friends, including one who I find very attractive (she's smart, funny, fun to be around, and cute, even if she's not my typical type). We aren't terribly close, but I was hoping to become better friends with her. So I offered to buy her a drink from the bar. I come back with the drink, set it in hand, get back to chit-chatting, and I made a bit of a pass at her. She looks at me and says "OMG, I'm the straightest girl you'll ever meet!" I must have looked crestfallen, because she looks down at her drink and says, "wait-- do you want your drink back?" I've had some pretty dismal encounters with women, but that was one of the more cringe worthy. Especially because it was in front of all my friends!"

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