11 Sex Positions For Introverts Who Are Tired Of Being Shy In Bed

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Who says you're not kinky??!

The world as we know it is divided into two types of people: introverts and extroverts. (Or you could be one of those surprisingly common extroverted introverts.)

We all know an extrovert: a loud-minded, outgoing, and leadership-skilled individual. Extroverts do what they want, say what they want, and usually don’t care what people think about them. We all wish we could be an extrovert.


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Introverts, on the other hand, are the complete opposite. Being a bit more shy than their counterparts, they’re more toned down, quiet, relaxed, and often keep to themselves. They think in their head but rarely do we hear what they want to say, unlike extroverts who say everything they want to.

We each define ourselves as being either an introvert or extrovert and we use it to explain our personality in a simpler way. Both are completely different and take a contrasting approach toward almost everything, completely differing in most ways.

But besides just the usual personality tropes, another large divide between introverts and extroverts is their performance in the bedroom. Extroverts are believed to be more freaky and fiery in bed while introverts are imagined to be more timid and toned down individuals when it comes to sex.

But introverts don’t have to be achingly shy just because their personality demands they be — we should never assume they’re not as freaky in the bedroom as their louder counterparts. Just because introverts act timid in social situations doesn’t mean they can’t turn a switch on in bed.


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We tend to overly pride ourselves on our performance in bed, and sometimes, we may get a bit discouraged if we feel we’re missing something or not doing something right. Even if you are an introvert and you’re a little on the shy side, don’t let it stop you from getting hot and heavy in bed!

You don’t have to be shy all the time. And even if you are, there’s nothing wrong with that. There are plenty of things you can do to try to help you grow out of your shell — especially during sex.

Of course, there really aren’t any specific sex positions for introverts. Anyone, even extroverts, can do these if they please. But if you just so happen to be introverted and a bit more shy than you would like, here are 11 sex positions to help you take a different approach in bed.


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1. Missionary
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It's an underrated position, but it never seems to fail to get the job done, especially if you're looking for something inside your comfort zone.

2. Doggy Style
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This is an awesome position for introverts. You don’t have to face the other person, yet still getting to explore your kinkier side!

3. Spooning
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Spooning again is similar to doggy style as in you’re not facing the other person. But it's more cuddly and intimate.

4. Mutual Masturbation
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If you’re looking to explore, mutual masturbation is perfect for you. It lets you open up discussion about what you do and do not enjoy — without the awkwardness of staring at each other (whew!).

5. Woman on Top
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This has got to be one of my my favorite sex positions for introverts. You’re not going crazy wild in the sack, but still being ultra sexy by taking control. Plus, you orgasm better on top.

6. Face to Face
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This position is fun, wild and a little kinky! It may take you out of your comfort zone for a bit but it’s nothing too crazy. It’s also super relaxing — just like you.

7. The Scissors
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Sounds complicated, but it’s not. It may be a little uncomfortable at first (you know, facing someone that close), but it’s definitely worth the O.

8. The Manhandler
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You can take this position so many ways. Bend over on the floor, on the bed, over the couch. The possibilities are endless! And he’s getting to touch you in all the right places.

9. The Good Spread
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It’s like the woman on top except you’re spreading your legs wide open. Once again, you’re taking charge and that orgasm will be AMAZING.

10. The Magic Bullet
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First off, the name of this position sounds thrilling. It's a nice twist to missionary, all while giving your legs a nice stretch.

11. The Organ Grinder
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Once again your legs are wide open, except with the man on top. The Organ Grinder will give you a very deep penetration and is exactly what the name promises. Plus, your clitoris being stimulated. Yes, please!

 

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