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How You Can Break Out Of Your Bad Relationship Patterns [VIDEO]

How you can FINALLY break the cycle!

You've been plagued by one bad dating experience after another. After being involved in a series of terrible relationships, you promise yourself that you'll finally start fresh.

Yet, you notice that you keep attracting the same type of men. Although you're not making a conscious effort to do so, you can't escape your relationship history.

How can you break out of this vicious cycle? Is it even possible?

The answer is of course, yes! It may not seem like it when you're in the heat of the moment but there are many ways that you can stop going from one failed relationship to another. The trick is analyzing the patterns that you fall into.

  • Is there a common factor between each relationship?
  • Before getting into said relationships, have you actively worked on finding genuine happiness?
  • Are you actually sabotaging yourself on purpose?

We took these questions to our experts and you'll be surprised by what their answers reveal.

Authors Charles OrlandoJohn Gray, Life Coach Barbara Schiffman, Counselor Kelly Crossing, and Hypnotherapist Laura Rubinstein stress that breaking your bad dating habits and getting the love you deserve starts with YOU.

One great point raised by Barbara was this: "I kind of find that if women are doing things they love [doing], they're more attractive...Energetically, they're radiating who they are. So people are more in that mode up in their life."

The good news is that science also corroborates her well made claim.

According to CNN, the real reason you end up dating the same guys over and over again is because you're mentally wired to do so. After surveying over 2000 men, the study found that their partner selection was heavily influenced by their parent's traits.

Director of the Council for Relationships Stephen Treat states that, "Your psyche wants to go back to the scene of the crime, so to speak, and resolve that parental relationship."

Our brains seek out people who are familiar so we can remain in our comfort zone. This explains why so many people attract partners who physically and emotionally resemble their parents.

All of this said, even though you're wired to fall for certain type, you can still destroy those patterns. It all depends on whether you're in tune with your wants and needs.

Here's the bottom line.

In life, you have two options. You can either use their advice wisely and finally break out of your relationship rut. Or you can choose to not change your life and nothing will change.  That decision is telling the universe that you're fine with the direction your love life is heading in.

If you're up for the challenge, we're positive you'll come out on top.

But the choice is yours.


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