8 Tips To Help You Kiss Like A Pro
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There's nothing worse than a sloppy kiss. The moisture, the rogue tongue going every which way, the groping hands. It's enough to make you shiver (and not in a fun way).
We’ve all been there, unfortunately. You have a really nice date and the evening is going very well. Things start to progress as sparks are flittering in the coolness of night, so you invite your date in for a drink (or two, or three).
The moment feels right, and they go in for the kill to sweep you off your feet into a romantic bliss. But suddenly, your mood changes from enchanted to completely grossed out.
Yes, kissing can feel awkward. even for men. .
Listen, is a lot of fun for the both of you, but without showing your love interest what you can do with the simplicity of an amazing kiss, you better believe you won't be coming back for round two with a second act.
To impress them you need to learn how to kiss by having a balance between soft and aggressive, sensual and playful. There is a bit of skill involved, but don’t worry, we’re here to lead you every step of the way (well, just about as far as we can take you before it’s time for you to take over).
If you don’t take the time to learn how to kiss, you might end up with an unfortunate nickname barring you from other potential mates. Yikes! Do you really want to be known as the Face Licker or the Tongue Stabber? No, we didn't think so. No human on earth wants that.
You (and the rest of us, really) want to be known as a fantastic kisser, as the man or woman who is the master of both the slow, sensual kiss and the wild, passionate make out. You want to be the person that others actually want to smooch. The person who inspires fantasies and gossip (the good, flattering kind).
Remember, we can always aspire to be better, both in and out of the bedroom. And kissing is no exception. Trust me, you do not want your date to mistake you for a slobbering dog. Hell no, that's no fun for anyone.
So, we've come to the rescue once again. Heed these essential expert kissing tips and you will be well on your way to becoming a kissing master. Fantasies, gossip and adoring looks included. (Slobbering optional, if you're into that kind of thing.) You can thank us later, world.
Dina Colada is an online dating expert, love coach and author of of the free e-booklet 'How To Get The Epic Love You Want'.
1. Make sure your breath smells good.
Especially if you've gone out for Indian food together, you want to keep your breath minty. Bad breath is a serious turn-off. If you can't sneak away for a quick brush keep a pack of gum in your pocket or in your car. She will really appreciate it. What could have been a good kiss can be a complete turn-off if you've got dog breath.
2. Lead with your breath.
Breathe a little on her neck and pull away first. This will build anticipation and show her that you can control yourself. You can brush her hair behind her shoulder (if she has long hair) or put your hands on her face while you breathe in her yummy woman bouquet. Notice the smell of her hair and her skin and don't move too fast.
3. Lick your lips.
When you go in for the kiss, moisten up first, but not too much. A little chapstick never hurt anybody either.
4. Remember that less is more.
Especially in the beginning. Kiss her lips gently.
5. Pay attention to how she reacts.
Listen to her breathing and be aware of what she is doing. Is she taking deeper breaths or trying to pull away from you? If she is pushing you away, things aren't working out.
6. Mimic her moves.
If she is receptive she will give you body language clues. Her body might start moving, she might try to get closer to you or put her arms around your body. If she opens her mouth, do the same.
7. Use your tongue gently if she seems open to it.
A woman's mouth is usually smaller than a man's mouth and she can feel overwhelmed by your tongue easily.
8. Follow her lead.
Keep doing what you're doing and follow her cues.