We can never get rid of all of our past baggage before starting a new relationship, but is it possible that we're placing too much pressure on our potential partners to "fix" what's wrong and heal all our ills? Do women really just want to be saved?

In a new video for YourTango, relationship experts Jen Duchene, Carin Goldstein, Marla Martenson and Kelly Rudolph dish with YourTango Experts Senior VP Melanie Gorman about what happens when women rely on men to act as a friend, lover and Superman.

If you've ever hoped a guy could change everything, or if you're sick of watching your relationships stop, start and stutter, check out the video above for some real talk and great dating advice.

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