You love your best friend, but you also want to stand up for what's right: what should you do if your BFF is having an affair?

Relationship expert John Gray has some advice for this sticky situation. Whether or not your should tell her husband or partner is dependent many variables — learn how to navigate them all so you can make the right choice.

Check out the video above to discover how to make it out with everyone's dignity and respect intact.

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