Are you frustrated in the bedroom because the sex is just not what it used to be? Are you worried that with a diminishing sex life, loving feelings in your relationship will fade away too? If so, help is on the way.

In this video, counselor and YourTango Expert Dr. Pat Love says that two-thirds of women claim to be in that same frustrating situation.

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"You may be aroused, you may want sex, you may long for an exciting, exotic sex life, but you don't have the desire," she says. "Desire comes when you're having sex for most women so that's why you have to be proactive."

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