Do you blame your lover whenever you don't achieve orgasm during sex? Do you believe your orgasm is entirely in his hands? If so, this instructional sex video can help.

In this video, sex educator & therapist and YourTango Expert Melissa Fritchle explains that if your partner feels responsible for your pleasure, the bedroom can become a stressful environment. Sex is collaborative, and won’t feel gratifying unless couples can communicate openly about what feels good to them.

Want to learn how to talk with your partner to learn each other’s likes and dislikes? Check out the video above.

Share this with someone you love (or even like a lot)!

Let's make it
FB official

More juicy content from YourTango:

VIDEO SERIES
OTHER SERIES