In this video, sex educator & therapist and YourTango Expert Melissa Fritchle explains that if your partner feels responsible for your pleasure, the bedroom can become a stressful environment. Sex is collaborative, and won’t feel gratifying unless couples can communicate openly about what feels good to them.
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Want to learn how to talk with your partner to learn each other’s likes and dislikes? Check out the video above.