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Help! I Envy My Friends' Success


YourTango Expert Jennifer Wilkov offers advice about jealousy.

Do you envy your friends? Do you constantly compare yourself to them? If so, help is on the way.

In this video, relationship coach and YourTango Expert Jennifer Wilkov explains how to overcome these feelings by turning the tables and posing the question, "What if you were the successful one? How would you want other people to think of you?" Jennifer suggests that you try to be happy for your friends instead of jealous. After all, "What you put out is what you get."

Want to learn more? Check out the video above!


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