One YourTango reader asks:
My wife brought home the book "50 Shades Of Grey" and suddenly our sex life is hot again. Why are women so turned on by a book? Should I be concerned I'm not enough for her?
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In this video, author of The complete Marriage Counselor and YourTango Expert Sherry Amatenstein explains the phenomenon that is EL James' bestselling erotic fiction trilogy. "Instead of being concerned," says Sherry, "be grateful! Your wife is saying she wants to be more sexually in sync with you; she's saying "women can like porn too, and also like fantasty." The Kiss Of Death For Relationships Revealed!
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