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How Do I Know I Won't Get Cheated On Again?

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How to protect yourself when you've been cheated on before.

Are you tormented by memories of men who've cheated on you before? Does infidelity from your past still haunt you today? If you've been cheated on, it's normal to worry that it will happen again ... but you don't have to let it ruin your chances of having a successful relationship. In this video, Relationship Therapist, Best-Selling Author and YourTango Expert Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil explains how to let go of your past while protecting yourself against infidelity in the future. Help! I Can't Stop Thinking About My Mean Ex

"Everyone worries about being cheated on," says Dr. Bonnie, "especially if you've been cheated on before." So, what can you do about it? "The first piece of advice that I can give you is take a history." Dr. Bonnie encourages you to ask your new guy about his past. Has be been unfaithful before? Getting answers to this kind of question early on can reveal a lot about how he will treat you in the future.

Want more advice about how to overcome your painful past and learn to trust again? Check out the video above.

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