I've never been afraid to ask for what I want in bed. The idea that some women can't ask for what they want, or don't know what they want in the first place, is foreign to me. However, I'm well-aware that I may not be in the majority here. Guys have told me other women become self-conscious when asking for something risqué or kinky — and that's a crying shame. Sexual relationships (any relationships, actually) thrive when you know what you want and can communicate it effectively to your partner clearly. Therefore, I would love to help you out, boys and girls, more so than I already did with my piece "5 Moves Women Love In Bed, But Can Be Too Afraid to Ask For." (And I apologize for how heteronormative this advice is, but my only sexual partners have been dudes!)
Men, don't pressure anything here, of course — but if you offer, you may be pleasantly surprised at how enthusiastically she accepts…
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Written by Jessica Wakeman for The Frisky.