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15 Tips To Spice Up Your Sex Life (From Men)

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Try them all tonight and turn up the heat.
How to keep the sexy alive, whether you've been in a relationship for six months or 20 years.

It's hard, especially if you've been a long-term relationship or marriage, to keep the sexy alive. It's easy to fall into a rut when it comes to a romp in the bedroom — we've all done it — and harder than ever to come back out of the rut with some new sexy moves. There's no one better to discuss how to please a man then, well, another man.

Here are 15 suggestions from guys about how to bring the heat back into your relationship:

1. Strap on some sexy stockings and a garter belt.

2. Keep your naughty bits well-maintained. A simple trim can suffice if a bikini wax is an undesirable (ouch!) option.

3. Try a lap-dance or a sexy strip-tease. That doesn't mean you have to spend a fortune on lingerie — you can easily remove the frumpiest clothes sexily.

4. Sexy texts can really get him going. Send him something like, "I can't wait for you to get home tonight — got a surprise for you," and, well, give him a surprise!

Read the rest of the sexy tips on The Stir: 15 Sex Tips For Women (From Men)

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