If you haven't tried Tantra, you are missing out.
What is tantric sex? Tantric sex is the art of lovemaking that involves the unity of the body, soul, and feeling. Tantra aims for sex to become more enjoyable and anyone who can get new energy after sex. An orgasm is not only obtained by the sex organs but also spread throughout the body from head to toe.
Margot Anand, a Tantra sex instructor and author of The Art of Everyday Ecstasy, discloses how to practice Tantric sex, breathing, muscle contraction, sensation, visualization, and meditation. This technique is intended to bring spirituality, so there must be a shared willingness of the couple.
1. Build a romantic atmosphere.
You can start by decorating the room with flowers or other objects that can beautify things. Light an aromatherapy candle or dim the lights. Then choose easy listening music as the rhythm can arouse.
2. Explore the erotic zones.
Visually stimulate your partner with dance. To increase sensation and sensitivity, try rubbing perfume or aromatherapy oils down her nose. Discover all the erotic zones by exploring the whole body with your finger from the neck, chest, and then continue down to the foot. Feel the vibration of her body before you are both ready to have sex.
3. Remember that the key is breathing.
Doing breathing is the key to the success of Tantric sex. Do this by sitting in opposite positions. Attach both your faces, staring deep into the eyes of your partner. Synchronize your breathing with him/her. Open your mouth and then exhale when he takes a breath. Do this alternately for some time.
4. Use sensual touching.
Focus on fun things done with a partner. Feel the warmth and intimate moments with your partner. Next, start with a touch of erotic foreplay on your favorite body parts. Do sensual touches for a moment before having sex.
5. Unite the body and soul.
When sexual excitement began to rise, start the action. Feel your soulmate blend with your body.
Sexual climax or orgasm in Tantra also means enlightenment, the formation of the male-female energy cycle that takes you to the peak of pleasure. Do you feel the relaxation after that? When the energy flows into your deepest self, the energy will connect you to the creator. This is the unification of energy referred to in Tantric sex.