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Do I Have To Settle For Subpar Sex?

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Have you found the perfect guy, but the sex is awful? Should you settle for almost perfect?

Are you looking for a man who has everything? Are you willing to compromise if he's great everywhere else except the bedroom? If the answer is yes, we're here to tell you why you should think twice!

In this instructional sex video, YourTango expert and therapist Carin Goldstein recommends patience. Don't settle for second rate sex. You can either take the time to improve or move on to someone with more natural ability. After all, no one wants cheese whiz after they have tasted real cheddar.

Is it worth settling for almost perfect when it means compromising having a happy sex life? Watch the video above to see what Carin Goldstein has to say about this.

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