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How To Love The Man Who Loves Your Feet

Tips for telling if you're dating a foot fetishist and how you should handle it.

I guess I'm what you'd call a foot fetishist, although this designation is more complex than you probably think. Most foot fetishists are not perverts, sexual deviants, or anything to be afraid of. Fetishes Make The World Go Round
 
From what I've seen, public mentions of the phrase "foot fetish" are generally followed by giggles and a short discussion of some guy on the news who got arrested for hiding under strange women's cars so he could get a brief lick of their feet while they loaded groceries into the trunk. (That's the media for you.) And apparently there really are guys who subscribe to websites like Footsie Babes and attend local "foot parties." But, like any other sexual passion, there are many levels of enthusiasm, and those guys are the extreme.
 
Most of us foot-lovers enjoy regular sexual practices just as much as any other guy, and we do care about the rest of your body. However, the enthusiasm for you below the ankle is still there, and because of the social implications of having a "foot fetish," many guys don't tell the women in their lives. It's shame, really, since talking about preferences and revealing things we feel embarrassed about can make couples closer.
 
While even the infinite depths of Google can't produce a remotely legitimate statistic on the frequency of foot obsession, the general consensus is that it's the first or second most common "fetish." I can say from experience that you're more likely to date a guy who has some interest in your feet than you might think, so here are a few tips for telling if you're dating a foot-fan and how you should handle it. Microphilia & Other Weird Fetishes

Signs Of A Foot Fetishist
Even early in the relationship, before sex is involved, there can be signs of a potential foot lover. Extended examination of a pedicure or questions about what size shoe you wear should be noted as signs of a likely foot fetish. You should also notice where his hands usually land on you when the two of you are lounging around. If he regularly reaches for your feet, you can be all but sure of his status.
 
For guys like me, sucking toes and licking feet is somewhere around par with intercourse on the intimacy scale, so if his mouth comes into contact with your feet with any regularity, or if he often grabs for your feet as he's preparing to start (or finish) the act, it's a safe assumption that he has a thing for feet. 
 
In my experience, women's reactions to having their feet fondled are more negative than positive. A few have straight-out told me, well before my hands got below their knees, that they don't like their feet and they don't like having them touched (one even stated it the first time she took her shoes off in front of me).
 
Others will say things like, "You know, you don't have to do that stuff with my feet," which translates to, "Please don't do that, it really disturbs me." And then there's "Oh, you're one of those guys." There are, however, women who have been happy to allow close examinations of their feet and even took pleasure in just how much they excited me. Unfortunately, there are also those girls who are highly ticklish, and no matter how much they want you to touch them, practicality will inevitably intervene.

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Bow Married
Posted 2 weeks ago

My wife isnot into it. Its just not her thing . I tell her I want to try it or even with somebody who is willing and she just says go ahead.

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Bow Married
Posted 2 weeks ago

Well, never thought id be telling my story until I saw this page but yes I have a strong foot fetish and started when my teacher made me sit under her desk because i was distracting the class and even under the desk I was still distracting a buddy in class so the teach kicked her shoe off and put her sexy nylon foot over my mouth and at 1st I thought oh s**t but after she did for some reason the smell turned me on and the fact that she was good looking. Some people might think that was abusive but I thank god she did that cuz I found out that nylon feet turn me on. The smell of it and the taste of it has melted me like butter. Everytime I see a gal wearing nylons or not I cant help but look and wish I could pleasure her by messageing them or sucking them. I have looked on the internet with the question (WHY} such a strong foot fetish and it said the foot gives off feramones that attracts a person and that millions have this paticular fetish and that all the nerve endings are at the bottom of the foot and so is a great sensation for someone to have their foot played with although many are starting to find this out alot of woman still think its weird or embarassing. My wife has let me somewhat experiment but only after they are washed, (boaring) dont like them dirty, just sweaty enough to give off that sexy smell and taste. Each person has their own aroama I found out . I am a normal average working guy who has kept this in the closet since the teacher thing and have wanted an experience like that forever now. Maybe I would think differently about it now but I doubt it. Female feet should be worshiped and if you think about it is harder to get than sex. I know their are some that smell bad as well and are gross to me but if they take care of their feet then they are doable. I think the only way I am gonna be able to satisfy my curiosity is to go to nevada and order a footfetish menue and pay to pleasure some cute girls feet, footslave

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BookMama Married Happily Married
Posted 2 weeks ago

Maybe your wife would be wiling to leave her feet unwashed to save you money in Nevada. Just a thought.

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bogart4017 Married
Posted October 17, 2009

My wifes foot on my shoulder when we make love is a stone turn-on!

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Airen Married polyamorous, committed, intimate, free
Can Relate - Posted October 15, 2009

My husband likes a nice, clean foot and rubbing the soft skin on the upper part is something he always liked. Then we met and I fell for a guy with a real fetish about feet and learned how erotic and sensual a true love of the part can be! I love the attention and he takes care of my feet like they are the most precious thing he owns...and my husband has seen how much I like it which has broadened our intimacy reptoire!

I think every woman who can stand her feet being touched should experience a foot fetishist at least once :)

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Lyz Married Community Manager
Posted October 13, 2009

Wow. My guy is not toe obsessed, but he likes a good foot. Which is touch, because I run a lot and my toenails suffer as a result.

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newworldme Married
Posted October 12, 2009

nope, as a foot guy. I love to suck my wifes toes, and kiss her feet during sex.

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BookMama Married Happily Married
Posted October 12, 2009

Actually, I used to think toe-sucking was just something people did for the toe-suckee.

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