Plus: Does the G-spot really exist?
For all the people that doubt that the G-spot exists, get ready for your mind to be BLOWN! Whether you're super experienced in bed or not, it's pretty much a given that there are certain ways you can spice up your sex life.
And if you are, in fact, in tune with your body's needs, you'll know that there is a large amount of ridiculously hot sex positions you can try. No, we're not kidding and this is not a test (wink, wink). But do you know what the best part is? The fact that if you're not...satisfied with one, you can get your sexy on by testing out another one.
There are so many endless possibilities to being intimate with your lover that it'll be hard for you to pick a favorite one. And that's where Dr. Lori Buckley of the Sinclair Institute comes in.
When it comes to figuring out what the best sex positions are for you, she stresses that recognizing where you want to be in terms of control is a great start!
Here are a few scenarios you can get behind:
Sometimes, letting your man do all the work can make your orgasm even more pleasurable. But there may be other times where it is better (and oh so hotter) for you to take control. After all, no one knows whether or not you’re getting what you need better than you do.
At the end of the day, it all depends on what you and your partner feel comfortable with trying.
Whatever you decide on, you and your partner will definitely be thanking us later.
Hi, I'm Doctor Laurie Barclay with "Ask an Expert”. I'm a sex and relationship therapist with Sinclair institute and today I'm going to be answering your sex and intimacy questions.
Today’s question is:
Dear Doctor Laurie, I have two questions.
1. What position is best for female orgasm?
2. And does the G-Spot really exist?
Those are both really great questions. Let me answer your first one. The best position for female orgasm for most women is being on top. Being on top puts you in complete control. You get to control the pressure, the depth, the pace, everything that you need to be able to have as much pleasure as you can to experience an orgasm.
It also puts you in a position to rub your clitoris on your partner's body, which is a great way to have an orgasm because a majority of women do actually
need that direct clitoral stimulation. So give that one a try.
The second question is a bit controversial, the g-spot. You know, I think that the name is misleading; it's not really spot per se it's an area inside of our vagina that can for many women be extremely pleasurable.
So it's really something that you need to find out for yourself so do some exploration. Try it yourself or ask your partner to do it. It's in the front upper part of your vagina and you know, just use a couple of fingers and just put some pretty good pressure on that area and see how it feels for you. Again, not all women enjoy that kind of stimulation but the women who do say it's the best so give it a try!