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Let's Play A Love Game: Spotting The Pickup Artist

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Can you tell if your guy is a pickup artist? To spot the players, you must understand the game.

Do you know what a PUA is?  PUA is the acronym for pickup artists, men who know all the right moves to get your attention and have the art of seduction up their sleeves.

Dating expert Julie Spira discusses the difference between a pickup artist (and total ladies' man) and a guy who is just interested in getting to know you, as well as reveals how to spot a pickup artist from a mile away by decoding the seductive techniques he is known for using to lure in the ladies.

For more dating advice on how to see through his game, check out the video above.

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