Over the years, I’ve become convinced that contacting the G-spot during intercourse is essential for optimizing a woman’s sexual pleasure. Women who do not orgasm during intercourse could benefit by exploring different sexual positions until they find one that allows direct stimulation of their sacred spot. After all, men exhibit wide variations of the angle of their erections, and the size and shape of their penises. Women must find what works best for them. For example, a man who has an erect penis that lies flat against his belly might very well contact a woman’s G-spot perfectly in the face-to-face position, whereas this might not be the case in some other position. On the other hand, for some women, contact with their G-spot is more likely from the rear entry position, and in others from the woman on top position. Not only does the physical makeup of the partners and the positioning for sexual intercourse play a role in the stimulation of the G-spot, but the cooperation of the partners plays a part as well. It may just be that the frame of the perfect lover is based on the compatibility of the physiological characteristics, along with the couple’s willingness to improvise and experiment.
Of course, even perfectly compatible positioning of the sex organs won’t work as long as the G-spot remains armored, or desensitized. I would encourage any couple in a sexual relationship to explore G-spot massage for a number of reasons. First and foremost, most women need this kind of sexual healing. Virtually all women, and many men, have some degree of armoring. Second, even if they don’t have any armoring issues, this form of intimate, deep tissue massage offers women the possibility of extraordinary orgasmic pleasure. G-spot massage also serves as a wonderful way for a man to prolong sexual play and lavish unbridled, loving attention on his female partner. It offers a man the chance to be in service to his lover as he assumes the important role of sexual healer.
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