3 Simple Ways To Be THE Sexiest Woman In The Room Every Single Time!

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Hint: Short skirts have nothing to do with it.

What's the secret to being a truly sexy woman who captivates the whole room? The secret is tapping into and drawing out your innate authentic feminine self.

This isn’t something you can buy or wear or get in a pill.

It’s something that emanates from you and it reflects your connection to the core of who you are. It involves self-confidence, self-esteem and feminine flare.

Real attraction and sex appeal comes from implementing this three things:

1. Let your feminine energy radiate

This is the opposite of acting tough, playing hard to get, and having emotional walls up. It’s not about over-accommodating or making sure everyone else is happy at your own expense. It’s about striking a balance between your masculine and feminine energy.

You must connect inward to radiate your feminine energy.

When you are lit up and glowing this way, you become a chooser (rather than a victim) and you set up your life on your terms. You no longer leave it in the hands of someone else, such as: fate, destiny, or some guy you hope will change to become 'the right man' for you. You power your life with your own radiance and THIS is super sexy to the man you're intentionally eyeing from across the room.

2. Kindly but firmly honor your boundaries

This is the ultimate act of being powerful and soft. Honoring your boundaries begins by saying "yes" to what you want and "no" to what you don't want.

By honoring your boundaries, you stay true to yourself and you don’t compromise your goals and values, especially when you meet a really hot guy where there is obvious chemistry between you. Just because he's attractive and you like him doesn't mean your own boundaries aren't equally valuable. 

3. Face your deepest fears about being vulnerable

Marianne Williamson says, "Your deepest fear is not that you are inadequate. Your deepest fear is that you are powerful beyond measure and it’s your light, not your darkness that frightens you."

It takes believing in yourself to illuminate your inner light. Faith in your own feminine radiance is what stops you from relying on someone else's light to feel whole. This puts you in the driver’s seat of your life, rather than in the passenger seat with another person steering you places you have no desire to go.  

Being THE sexiest woman in the room helps you stand out in the crowd and attract the man you really want.

It helps you find a relationship where you feel intimately connected. You feel seen, heard,  loved and finally able to receive love.

Embracing your authentic feminine self can take time, patience and practice. My advice is to TRUST that you have everything you need inside you already. You're already sexy, magnetic, and radiant.

You will know that you're on the right track when your mere presence makes a man’s head turn when you walk into the room, as they'll feel magnetically drawn to you. Then, the next move is up to you … and you'll know exactly what to do!

Teena Evert is love relationship and dating coach helping smart women get relationship-ready so they can magnetize their ideal man. Make sure to apply for a FREE Ignite Love Now Discovery Session with Teena.

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