Date Like a Porn Star

Love, Sex

What we can learn from porn stars when it comes to smart and safe sex.

We love dirty jokes, bragging to our friends about our sexual exploits and basking in the glow of our sexual prowess. But when we meet a new partner, most find it easier to open their legs than their lips. In 2012 honest open discussions between dating singles about sex is still repressed by puritanical norms and adolescent emotions.  Good girls don’t talk about it and good boys don’t ask.

Where does that leave sexually active singles? In a state of ignorant bliss.

68% of singles aren’t concerned about contracting an STD; however, when asked 45% of single respondents did not regularly use protection during vaginal intercourse, 66% did not regularly use protection during anal intercourse and 91% did not regularly use protection during oral intercourse. Although, researchers expose the naked truth about singles’ sexual behavior; eligible men and women continue to embrace an erroneous attitude of indestructibility. By refusing to loosen clenched tongues, instead opting to entwine limbs before minds; they limit gratification, cherish false expectations, and jeopardize their health all in the name of polite conversation. Screw that!

Date like a porn star. Expose yourself!

Porn stars are no longer random strangers hooked up by some half-baked producer, they network. The adult film stars look for co-stars through various social media sites. They look for matches and a connection online, in order to have a better performance offline. Even though, there are no flowers or candlelight dinners, they do converse- a lot! They candidly exchange sexual history, carnal preferences, and STD results; all before they actually meet in the flesh and long before cameras roll. Granted, erotic eye candy, not love, is their sole intention; however, it doesn’t mean that sexually active love seekers can’t take a cue from the pro’s playbook. Sexual history and swapping STD test results may not be appropriate conversation on your first date {unless of course you are planning on having sex on your first date} but freeing the cat from your tongue before you go at it like rabbits will reap a more pleasurable and safer sensual experience while creating delicious anticipation.

Read more, including tips for how to best communicate before engaging in sex, here. And, be sure to read more on the Singles Warehouse blog, too.

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