The 3 Step Formula For Giving Your Man The Best Blowjob Of His Life
And it's so much easier than you think!
WeHeartIt “Let Go My Balls!” I snapped at her …
Probably not the best decision, considering where her hands were, but why did every woman who wrapped her lips around me have to ruin it by toying with my nuts? I HATE THAT!
Julie and I had been dating for almost 2 months, and apart from her grabbing and sucking on my balls, she had a pretty good technique.
Whenever she started to play with my balls, I would usually just close my eyes, stay quiet and fantasize about another time when a girl gave me better head, but this time was different. Enough was enough.
I was tired of lying to a girl about her blowjob skills just to spare her feelings. I didn’t want to hurt her, but I also wasn’t going to settle for mediocre blowjobs when I knew there were some women out there who really did know how to give great head.
Of the dozen or so women I’d been with in the last few years, only one gave me truly spectacular head — head so good my legs turned to putty every time.
Her technique was unlike any other I’d ever experienced, and she had complete control. She could make me orgasm within just a few minutes whenever she wanted me to.
After I scolded Julie, shock washed over her face. I apologized and she hesitantly resumed — but it wasn't the same.
Eventually, I ended things with her. After I left her apartment, I had to ask myself why women don't understand the basics of giving men decent oral sex. How many men are left feeling this disappointed this often?
I decided to conduct a survey in which I asked a number of men their opinions about BJs and to share what they most like and dislike during the act.
They gave me their answers regarding the biggest mistakes women make when giving head and described the best and worst experiences they'd ever had. After analyzing their responses and learning more tricks and techniques than I could have imagined existed, I boiled everything down to a simple 3-step formula.
Here are 3 steps to follow in order to give any man the BEST blowjob of his life ... GUARANTEED:
1. Start with “Safe Techniques”
While not all guys like the same techniques, there are some which are universally loved by most men.
For example, the frenulum (the area on the bottom of his penis where his head meets the shaft) is the most sensitive part of his member. Having a tongue rub against it back and forth while your lips “hug” his penis causes a feeling that is beyond extraordinary.
"Special" techniques, such as the common ball play tricks, are loved by some men while others hate them and cringe inside the entire time, so make sure you start with “safe techniques” instead — those that are loved by almost all equally.
2. Pay attention to his response — and change things (or DON'T) accordingly
If your guy closes his eyes and barely gives you any feedback — or if you don’t know how to read his subtle hints — you NEED to start doing something different, and quick!
But don't freak out without gathering more information.
Just because he's closing his eyes doesn't mean he's thinking about other women or hating what you're doing. Instead, take a moment to read him and get a feeling for what else he might want. He may just be too shy to tell you, so use that moment to ask him.
If you want to be his best ever, you’re going to need his feedback in order to do the third and final step of this formula.
Behavior modification techniques are incredibly powerful, and when you use sexual pleasure as the “modifier," you can reprogram your man to respond and give you the feedback you want and deserve as easily as using a remote control.
3. Fine-tune your technique.
Finally, try out only ONE tweak to your "safe technique" at a time.
Use your "safe technique" and gradually increase the speed of the oral until he gives you the right feedback, making sure your method matches his exact preferences. Try fine-tuning the pressure of your suction or finding out exactly how he likes his balls played with (if at all).
Once you figure out what he likes and what he doesn't, you can easily be the best he’s ever had.
There are 14 things you need to test and tweak to his preference and I’ll show you each of them inside my Blow His Mind Video, which will teach everything you need to know about how to give your guy “perfect” oral — guaranteed!