With years of experience as a sex expert and sex toy expert, I can tell you that bedroom boredom strikes nearly every couple at some point in the relationship. We get bogged down by work, kids, and chores and have little energy left at the end of the day to devote to our sex life. It takes effort to keep the sparks going – plus a little creativity. Here are 3 tips to help you make your sex life exciting again:
1.Try shopping for sex toys together! Put the kids to bed, lock the bedroom door and snuggle into bed with your laptop and your sweetie…..and browse a website like Bliss Connection together. Explore what interests each of you – you might be surprised! If you’ve never talked openly about what turns you on this is a great way to get the conversation started. Plus, think how much fun you’ll have once the toys you’ve ordered arrive! (You can even shop on my very tasteful online sex toy store BlissConnection.com and use the code TANGO for 15% off.)
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2.If the bedroom has gotten boring, why not change things up? Try having sex in the backyard or the laundry room – or climb into the backseat of your car! Almost all couples get stuck in a rut, and end up doing the same thing over and over. Chances are your partner is as bored as you are and will jump at the suggestion of something new. Even just changing your routine a little bit can make a big difference.
3.Take the initiative to change things. Instead of wishing your partner would be more exciting, you be the one to buy a new book on lovemaking or pull out a sexy DVD. Surprise your partner with a new toy, a massage, a suggestive text message – anything that will get the wheels turning in a new direction. And don’t be afraid to tell your partner that you’re trying to amp things up. It is always sexy when one person takes charge!
Bedroom boredom is a common complaint, but it’s not something you have to resign yourself to. Every couple deserves an exciting, satisfying sex life. You’ll have better intimacy and a closer connection if you take the time to improve your sexual relationship. Try these tips, and let us know if one of them has worked for you!
Be the change you want to see in your bedroom!
Chief Toy Office of www.BlissConnection.com
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