Make him want you bad ... and keep him satisfied.
Once you know how to please your man in bed, then you can be pretty certain that other women won't even enter his mind. If you can master the following 5 techniques, then you will be giving him everything he could possibly want in bed.
1. Focus on your oral skills.
By far the most enjoyable thing for your man is receiving. You'll be surprised at just how powerful his orgasms are when you do it right.
So what kinds of things should you do to make sure he enjoys it? Glad you asked.
- Wetter is better: When trying to please your man in bed with oral sex, you'll find that using lots of saliva is something that he likes very much. Why? Because when you give your man a really wet one, it feels more sensual and just provides better stimulation.
- Focus on the tip: When trying to please a guy by giving him oral, you may feel like you need pay equal amounts of attention to his entire penis. The truth is you shouldn't. The top is far more sensitive than the rest of it, which means it's more pleasing to him to have the top stimulated more than the rest of it.
- Finishing up: When you are trying to figure out how please a man in bed, you may feel like checking out some pornography. You'll notice that in a lot of scenes, the man finishes on the girl's chest, neck, butt or face. This is not something you or your man may necessarily like, but it's a great way to show him that you are willing to try new things to keep your sex life interesting.
2. Change up your sex positions.
If you are just starting to figure out how to please your man in bed, then it's important that you are aware that nothing kills your sex life faster than routine. I say this again and again because it's so true. Most couples only ever use two to six different sex positions.
If you want to know how to please your man in bed, then you need to learn some new positions to use on him (as well as continuing to use the ones that you both enjoy). Here are a few to get you started:
- The Washing Machine Position: In this sex position, you will be standing and leaning right over a washing machine or a table or even over the hood of a car. Your man will be standing too and will enter you from behind.
- The Lap Dance Position: In this position, your man will be sitting down on a chair or sofa. You then need to back up onto him with your butt so that he can enter you. The reason that it's called the lap dance position is because you can smoothly transition to sex from giving your man a lap dance.
3. Get vocal!
If you want a quick and easy tip on how to please your man in bed, then you'll find that getting vocal and talking dirty to him works wonders. But it's a good idea to understand that different people have different opinions and preferences on getting vocal and talking dirty.
Some aren't particularly confident and don't like the idea of saying dirty things to their man in bed, while others are happy to talk dirty to their man. The funny thing is that it doesn't matter, as long you are vocal to some degree. You could simply be moaning and sighing or you could be using explicit and nasty lines, like the ones in this dirty talking video.
As long as you are giving your man feedback by being vocal to some degree and letting him know how much he's pleasuring you and turning you on, then you are going to please him a lot in bed.
4. Explore his fantasies.
Now that I've covered the obvious areas on how to please a man in bed, I want to talk about how to please him in ways that almost no other girl can. The key is finding out his kinks and fantasies and exploring them with him.
The first part is finding out what they are. This can be tricky, but if you are accepting and open when listening to him without judgment, then he will have no problem sharing them with you.
When you do find out what they are, then it's time to start trying them out with him. You'll notice that as you explore them with him, he will start to open up to you about even more of his kinks and fantasies. You don't have to do them all with him, but if you can do some of them, then your man will eternally grateful and appreciative.
5. Show him you're excited to sleep with him.
The last thing I want to talk to you about and teach you when learning how to please your man in bed is your attitude. It's how you approach sex with your man.
Do you approach sex with him like it's a chore that you can't wait to get over with? Or are you enthusiastic about trying new positions, tips, tricks, tactics and techniques in bed with your man?
Whatever your attitude is now doesn't matter. The key is changing it so that you become more enthusiastic and eagerly look forward to getting sexual with your man.