Once you know how to please your man in bed, then you can be pretty certain that other women won't even enter his mind. If you can do the following 5 techniques, then you will be giving him everything he could possibly want in bed. Just remember that you won't be able to learn all of these things in just one day!
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Your Oral Skills - By far the most enjoyable thing for your man is getting a good blowjob from you. You'll be surprised at just how powerful his orgasms are when you give him a great blowjob. So what kinds of things should you do to make sure he enjoys it? Glad your asked:
- Wetter Is Better - When trying to please your man in bed with a blowjob, you'll find that giving hit a wet (and even sloppy) blowjob is something that he likes very much. Why? Because when you give your man a really wet blowjob, it feels more sensual and just provides better stimulation.
- Focus On The Tip - When trying to please a guy by giving him oral, you may feel like you need pay equal amounts of attention to his entire penis. The truth is you shouldn't. The top of your man's penis is far more sensitive than the rest of it, which means it's more pleasing to him to have the top stimulated more than the rest of it.
- Finishing Up - When you are trying to figure out how please a man in bed, you may feel like checking out some pornography. You'll notice that in a lot of scenes, the man finishes on the girl's chest, neck, butt or face. This is not something you or your man may necessarily like, but it's a great way to show him that you are willing to try new things to keep your sex life interesting.
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Sex Positions - If you are just starting to figure out how to please your man in bed, then it's important that you are aware that nothing kills your sex life faster than routine. I say this again and again because it's so true. Most couples only ever use 2-6 different sex positions. If you want to know how to please your man in bed, then you need to learn some new positions to use on him (as well as continuing to use the ones that you both enjoy).
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You'll be glad to know that I have created a completely free guide with over 100 sex positions on the Bad Girl's Bible site (with professional photographs) for you to improve your sex position repertoire with. Here are some of the best sex positions that you should be trying out with your man (continued on next page):