How To Have Sex With Yourself


Learn How To Have Sex By Yourself & Have Bone-Shaking Orgasms Using These Masturbation Tips

I am going to show you how to have sex with yourself the right way so that you can have orgasmic bliss on tap. You're really going to enjoy some of the techniques I teach you for having sex with yourself, but first I'm going to cover a few ground rules to ensure that you do everything right and have maximum fun.

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I know that you just want the techniques...Don't worry, they're coming, I just want to teach you some important preparation you can do to make having sex with yourself much more intense and your orgasms much stronger.

Do Not Disturb - The most important thing that you need to get handled is making sure that are not going to get disturbed during the act. Obviously if you are interrupted, then you aren't going to get to pleasure yourself. However there is something much more subtle that can happen...

If you are having sex by yourself and aren't totally sure that you won't be disturbed, then you will constantly be worrying about getting caught or disturbed. This fear and creeping worry will take you out of the moment and make it far less enjoyable.

Mood Setter - Once you are sure that you're not going to get disturbed, then it's time to start doing things that get you aroused and in the mood for sex before you actually start masturbating and having sex with yourself. Everyone has their own specific wants, needs & fantasies.

So you may need to just fantasize about a guy you like, but others may find reading a romance or erotica book helps the best. Others enjoy porn. So the advice here is to do whatever you need to do in order to get yourself in the mood. Now let's learn how to actually have sex with yourself...

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The easiest and cheapest way to have sex with yourself is by using your hands. Follow this roadmap for using your hands to give yourself tons of pleasure:

Start With A Stroke - The first & easiest technique to perform is running your fingers over the outside of your vagina. So just simply drag your fingertips over your vagina & around your vagina, labia and clitoris AND make sure to focus on what areas feel the most pleasurable. After a minute of this, you may start to 'itch' for something more. Don't give in just yet! Try to continue this for up to 10 minutes.

Explore With Those Fingers - Once you've really worked yourself up, then it's time to start doing some exploring with your fingers. At this stage you should already be quite wet. Start rubbing your finger in this wetness and then once your finger is wet too, start to slowly enter your vagina.

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