We ALL get horny once in awhile.
If you want to know how to have a one-night stand and have great sex while you're doing it, you're in the right place. You see, if you're female, you may already know that weird feeling of knowing it's actually really easy to have a one-night stand. But having a one-night stand that's actually enjoyable is a whole different story.
I want to arm you with the knowledge and tools you'll need in order to have hot, enjoyable sex during a one-night stand without having to worry about any awkwardness or weirdness.
The first thing to get straight is figuring out the reasons why you want to have a one-night stand. It could be for many diverse reasons:
- You just feel horny.
- You haven't had sex in awhile.
- You'd like to feel wanted and desired by a guy.
- There's a guy you want to sleep with but not date.
- You've never had a one-night stand before and it's on your bucket list.
These are just 5 reasons, but at the end of the day your reasons may be different. Now, finding out the reasons is not to analyze every detail of yourself. It's simply so you can ensure you have a good time, and more importantly, don't wake up regretting it.
The sad thing is that many women seriously regret having a one-night stand the morning after. One-night stands mostly suck when you feel used and go into it with the wrong intentions. If you're someone who doesn't usually like jumping into bed with a guy until you feel you know him, then obviously it's not going to be fun for you to jump into bed with a total stranger.
Even if it's someone that you know quite well, you may still feel weird about sleeping with him during a one-night stand instead of taking things more slowly.
The other time that having a one-night stand really sucks is when you think it will help you get the guy. In rare cases it can certainly work, especially in the short-term. But if you're serious about starting a relationship with a guy you like, then having a one-night stand is going to work against you. In fact, it may make him see you as easy, which is detrimental to any relationship.
So, how do you meet someone to have a one-night stand?
- Go out with a friend. Probably the best and safest way to have a one-night stand is to go out with a friend in search of guys. Not only is it more fun having a one-night stand buddy, especially when getting ready, but it also means that she can make sure you don't get too drunk.
- Try online dating. Another option is online dating. There are so many sites out there like Plenty Of Fish and Match.com, and apps like Tinder and Badoo. There is a near endless supply of guys to choose from.
- Find out ahead of time where you'll be having sex. It's always best to go back to yours if possible, especially if you have roommates. This is in case any funny business happens, so you can alert them to help you out. If you're living on your own or going back to his place, make sure to tell someone exactly where you're going and when you'll next be in touch.
Once you are somewhere where you can start having sex, it's time to start trying new sex techniques and positions. Here are a few of my most popular sex techniques.
- Ballistic BJ:
Most blow jobs follow the same pattern — simply bobbing your head up and down taking him into and out of your mouth until he comes. That's not very exciting, so why not triple the pleasure? Grab him with one hand while also taking him into your mouth. You can actually masturbate him with your free hand. While doing this, take your other hand and massage his testicles.
- Doggy and Hand:
One complaint many women have during one-night stands is that they have a really hard time reaching orgasm for the simple reason that they don't know the guy they are having sex with. All you are going to do is having sex in the regular doggy style position, ideally with your chest on the bed (don't rest on your hands). Now you can use one of your hands to start rubbing your clitoris while your man is penetrating you.
- One Dirty Mouth:
One-night stands are the perfect place to try new things, so if you've never tried dirty talking before, it's a great time to give it a shot.
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