How To Perform Oral Sex On A Man
By Sean Jameson. Posted on .
Most guys never get to experience deep throat. If you can be the person who allows your man to experience it, then you are giving him something that most girls can't. By the end of this article, you will be armed with the knowledge of how to give deep throat to your man without gagging.
(P.S. These are just a small section of my deep throating and blow job tips that you will find on this page).
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But before I give you the tips, I just want to tell you that learning how to deep throat your guy takes effort and practice. Just reading these tips and not doing anything will mean that you will make very little progress. But if you put into practice what I'm going to teach you here, then you are going to get good at deep throating your man very quickly. Ok, let's learn some deep throating techniques...
The Dry Run - Deep throating your man's penis has one major problem. That is the fact that taking it into the back of your throat means you will be stimulating your gag reflex. The sensitivity of your gag reflex could be incredibly high...or low. It varies greatly from person to person.
If you have a sensitive gag reflex, then you are going to gag really easily at the slightest touch and sometimes even throw up when you gag! This is definitely not something that you want to do in front of your man, so it's best to first test out your gag reflex to see how sensitive it is before you do it while giving your man a blow job.
To do this all you need to do is use a penis shaped object like a banana or dildo and slowly slide it into your mouth until it touches the back of your throat and stimulates your gag reflex (just make sure that whatever it is, you can take it out of your mouth again!).
Also while doing this, make sure to note that certain positions make it easier to avoid the gag reflex than others. For ideas on which blowjob positions work best, you should check out these 10 different ones (with demonstrations!).
Stop The Gag Reflex - Now that you know how sensitive your gag reflex is, it's time to take steps to get rid of it. You are going to do this by slowly building up a tolerance to having it stimulated. If it's very sensitive, then this part is going to take longer, while if it's not sensitive at all, then you don't need to do this part and should skip to the next section.
To get rid of your gag reflex while deep throating, you are going to slowly practice on something penis shaped like a dildo, banana or vibrator. You are going to slowly insert it into the back of your mouth so that it sets off your gag reflex. While doing this, you need to concentrate hard on relaxing it, so that you suppress your gagging.
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At first this is near impossible. But, if you practice it regularly for about 5 minutes at a time, you will quickly discover that you can gain more control over it. Eventually you will notice that you can repeatedly touch the back of your throat without gagging at all.
Just remember that completely eliminating your gag reflex takes time. For some it only takes a day or two, while for others, it can take weeks.
