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Before I get to the actual "how to have deep penetrative sex" part, we need to cover some important basics to make sure you fully understand why it can be super pleasurable, but also why sometimes it can be horrible and even painful.
You Deep Spot & Your Cervix
Towards the back or your vagina is the anterior fornix (your deep spot) which is located right above your cervix. Having it stimulated by your man is obviously super pleasurable during deep penetration sex. But if your man doesn't quite do it right, then he is going to accidentally hit your cervix, which we all know can be incredibly painful and can even ruin sex.
This is probably the most important thing to be aware of during deep penetrative sex. When you or your man change the angle of entry of his penis, then you are going to change the amount of pressure he is putting on your cervix and deep spot.
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You're going to need to do a fair bit of experimentation with your man so that you can both figure out which angles work best...and which angles he absolutely needs to avoid when going deep inside you.
The Last Bit Of Preperation
The final piece of the puzzle when having deep penetration sex with your man is making sure that you are lubricated enough so that he slides in and out easily. Remember to always uses water based lubricants if you are using silicon rubber condoms, oil based lubricants degrade rubber and can cause your condom to tear.
Now let's learn what positions work best for deep penetration...
Deep Penetration Positions
The key with each of these deep penetration sex positions is making sure that you start nice and slowly so that you can let your man know when he's hitting that perfect spot and when he's hurting you. Not keeping him in the loop will make this all a lot less pleasurable for both of you.
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The Jockey - The jockey position is great if you like deep penetrative sex while not being required to do a whole lot. To get set up in the jockey position, you are going to need to lie down on your stomach with your legs straight and together.