Most of us learn how to masturbate in our early teens, and then settle into a pattern that we repeat for the rest of our lives. If your solo sex life is in a rut, you can discover how to masturbate as if for the first time, and discover whole new levels of pleasure. If you are wondering how to masturbate with more creativity and variety, here are five suggestions for reinvigorating your solo sex sessions!
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#1 - Unplug: Over 50% of women use a vibrator every time they masturbate. Many women begin to experience vibrator burn-out or vibrator dependence. Your body can get dependent on a vibrator to reach orgasm if you use the same toy in the same way every time. Try unplugging and ditching the vibrators for at least one month to give your body to regain sensitivity. It may take you longer to have an orgasm, but the time invested will be well worth it. You’ll wake up more sensation and become more responsive to your own stimulation and your lover’s touch.
#2 - Touch Your Entire Body: All too often women get clit-centric when it comes to self pleasuring. The clitoris will always be the centerpiece of your sexual stimulation, but learn how to masturbate while including your entire body for more full-body pleasure and broader sensations. Touch your own breasts, scratch your arms and legs, squeeze the base of your neck. Explore every inch of your skin and notice how sensation changes and what brings you more arousal. You’ll discover a few hot spots that you can then share with your lover to create more pleasure when you make love. While you are exploring your whole body, don’t leave out your entire vulva. The techniques we cover in our video Guide to Fingering are designed to activate and stimulate the entire female sexual system. While we designed the video to teach lovers how to pleasure women, it is also a great video to check out if you want to learn how to touch your own body with more creativity for maximum pleasure.