What Is Serotonin And How Does It Affect You?

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Sex: How Serotonin Affects Your Sex Drive
7 tips for managing your serotonin levels naturally.

It's really amazing how many things one simple brain chemical, like serotonin, does in our bodies every day — without our even being aware of it.

Serotonin is a neurotransmitter, a chemical messenger found in the gut, blood, brain and nervous system. It transmits information and impulses across the spaces between the nerve cells, also known as neurons. Serotonin can have a huge impact on our mood, energy, attention, pain, hunger, weight and even our sex life. When your levels are low, you are more likely to get depressed (in the wintertime, for instance). The amount available in your system can make you gain weight, have constipation or diarrhea, reduce your pain, clot blood, heal wounds and even stoke or quell your horniness. It may even be more involved in migraines and sudden infant death (SIDS) than we thought. And there's a whole class of antidepressant drugs (SSRI's) used to affect it.

But even though you might not have a science degree, you'll recognize the effects of serotonin right away. For instance, when you go out to eat and you're starving — until you start chowing down on all that tempting bread and rolls in the basket they bring to keep you occupied while you're meal is being prepared. By the time your plate arrives, you don't feel that hungry anymore. That isn't from the calories in the bread; that's serotonin at work.

And by now you've also probably heard about what being "hangry" can do to your mood, disposition and even your interaction with your spouse or family. This type of hunger-induced anger can accelerate when your blood sugar drops and you get hungry, because the levels of serotonin in the parts of your brain that regulate anger are also dropping at the same time. This can potentially cause feelings ranging from anxiety and stress to uncontrollable anger, especially when you let blood sugar drop way below normal.

"Hunger is one of many external forces that play a part in frustration and temperament," according to Dr. Scott Weltzer, Vice Chair of Montefore Medical Center's Department of Psychiatry. Close relationships like marriage and living with a partner are sort of like a stretched rubber band. "Hunger can be the force that causes it to snap. We are all less inhibited around our loved ones and more likely to lash out at home than we are in the workplace," he adds.

That's because Serotonin is nature's own appetite suppressant. "This powerful brain chemical curbs cravings and shuts off appetite. It makes you feel satisfied even if your stomach is not full. The result is eating less and losing weight," according to researcher, Dr. Judith Wurtman in The AntiDepressant Diet.

And it can put you in a better mood. "A natural mood regulator, serotonin also makes you feel emotionally stable, less anxious, more tranquil and even more focused and energetic," Wurtman adds.

According to researchers at Macalester College, a deficiency of serotonin has been associated with greater aggressive behavior. In fact, low internal levels of this chemical have been linked with higher levels of irritability, impulsivity, aggression, disordered eating and sleeping problems. Medical studies have shown that serotonin's mechanism affects many different conditions, including alcoholism, clinical depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), hypertension, social phobia and even romantic love.

Physicians prescribe copious amounts of SSRI's, a class of antidepressants, to increase serotonin levels in many patients suffering from depression, bi-polar disorder and other mental challenges. One of the problems they've observed, though, is that these also lower sex drive, because they concentrate serotonin in the nerves.

Serotonin may actually be involved in the "love versus sex" divide. When serotonin is low, researchers say, it also tends to increase sex drive; whereas higher serotonin levels are also associated with an increase in oxytocin, the so-called "love" hormone. This seems to reflect women's preference for more bonding, cuddling and lovemaking versus men's noted penchant for straight physical sex. Ample amounts of serotonin make for more "loving" feelings.

So what can YOU do to manage your serotonin levels naturally, rather than with drugs?

  1. Keep your blood sugar balanced. All the more reason to watch what you're eating and get real nutrition and whole foods into your body regularly. Processed carbs — sugars and starches — are trouble because they destabilize your blood sugar and your mood!
  2. Start the day with protein, NOT carbs. Eggs, nuts, seeds, or yogurt for breakfast instead of a bowl of cereal or bagel is a better bet for keeping your blood sugar and your mood stable, so you don't fall off the wagon and become crabby later on. Eat more natural carbs like vegetables and fruits for supper to reduce stress, stimulate that feel good mood and restful sleep.
  3. Tall thin women with faster metabolisms tend to experience quick drops in blood sugar, but pear-shaped women with slower metabolisms who think they can exist just on pasta or toast are just as likely to have this sneak up on them. Eat veggies and good proteins to keep blood sugar stable.
  4. Lots of carbs can also deplete chromium, a mineral that's important in blood sugar balance.
  5. Eat protein with live food. Eating cheese or almond butter with celery, sprouts with hummus, a half banana with nuts or lettuce wraps with egg salad helps give your body the tiny bit of good carbs it needs to liberate the serotonin from the protein.
  6. Improve your digestion. Make sure you're getting good minerals from organic food and probiotics to help improve your digestive system.
  7. Be aware. Now that you know about this, better catch yourself next time you want to bite off his head. Ask yourself: "Am I actually just hungry?"

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