It's summertime: the drinks are colder, the nights are hotter, and it's the perfect time to bust out some new sex moves in the bedroom! You and your man deserve a night of romance, so pull out all the stops and try these fun tips! 10 Ways To Be Utterly Irresistible In Bed
1. Add some food into the mix. It's easy to get hot and sweaty when things are heating up in the bedroom, but food can be fun when used well. Skip the chocolate sauce since it can get messy and instead use chilled champagne.
The bubbles create an incredible sensation you'll love. Whether it's putting a tiny sip of champagne in your mouth before moving south, or just simple kisses all over his back and chest, the effervescence will add some serious sex appeal to your sash!
Few things are as refreshing as cold fruit in summertime. Share chocolate-dipped strawberries and pineapple with your partner. A sweet summer treat, chocolate acts as an aphrodisiac, and, the sugars in sweet treats like pineapple makes you and your partner taste better.
2. Cool down when things heat up. It's common sense, but in the dragging dog days of summer, everybody's got a fan in the bedroom. Nothing sparks the senses more than an icy sensation, so take turns with your man giving each other massages with a special tingle.
Buy massage oil with mint in it as the fan blows cool air over your backs, the cold wind will activate the menthol, giving you a shivery sensation. Bonus points if the massage oil is edible the menthol makes for a yummy surprise that could really pay off with minty kisses later on in the night.
3. Slow sex is better sex. Fast sex can easily make you both break a sweat, and it tire you both out faster. So take this chance to really slow things down and focus on a more gradual build of passion.
Segue into a striptease, and proceed from there. By seizing the chance to move slowly, you'll keep the temperature down, but amp the anticipation all the way up. A little bit of exhibitionism never hurt anyone, and the thrill of possibly being watched can be incredibly arousing.
4. Home is where the heart is. Before you get crazy in a public park, the beach or the back of your car, start your sexy-time somewhere at home. One option is to have sex in front of a window with shades partially open. Standing fully clothed, have him enter you from behind. If this is even too risqué, prop up a mirror somewhere in the bedroom and watch each other's expressions. Stressed? 5 Incredibly Healthy Reasons To Rip His Clothes Off
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