Are you looking for a Date or a Playdate

I watch it happen all the time, dating gone bad; dating gone awry. Single again and looking for love in all the right, and wrong, places. Or, is “love”  what you are really looking for? One of the greatest challenges we all face when moving forward after a breakup, or divorce, is not ...

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The Truth About Infidelity

It wasn’t too long ago that my phone rang and my good friend shared with me that one of the fathers in our town; the father of one our kids’ friends has been having an affair.  She was almost breathless with excitement as she shared the story with me and I became increasingly uncomfortable ...

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Divorce and Holidays: Naughty, Nice and Everything In Between

So, what is it?  Have you been Naughty or Nice this year? The journey of divorce will undoubtedly bring out our Naughty, Nice and everything in between sides. As I reflect back on my year, although I am Jewish and Santa doesn’t exist in my world, I am careful to be honest about whether or not ...

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Why You Know Your Marriage Is In Trouble

I’ve been working with women in all stages of divorce for a long time now, and regardless of whether she was aware of it or not, every woman deep down inside knew that her marriage was in trouble before the divorce ever became a reality.  My guess is that men experience the same thing. Marriage ...

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The Sucker Punch

They come out of nowhere.  And we are never prepared for them. I call them sucker punches.  Divorce sucker punches; or the moments that unexpectedly take our breath away.  You know what I am talking about, because we all experience them.  They are waves of sadness, loss, loneliness ...

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