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3 Top-Secret Tactics Of Women Who Can Get ANY Guy They Want

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Time to STOP being invisible.

When you're wondering why you're not attracting guys, it can seem like a mystery.

Especially when there are women all around who seem to just draw men to them.

You start to feel invisible ... and that's because you are.

And a lot of women aren't going to tell you these crucial pieces of advice. Maybe because they don't even realize why they're such guy-magnets. Or maybe because they want to keep all the quality guys for themselves...

If you're ready to stop being invisible to guys you're attracted to, and start attracting men like a superstar, you need to do THESE three crucial things:

 

1. Look up.


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In order to be a guy-magnet and attract guys with ease, you're going to do one simple thing.

You're going to look at them. Eye contact makes men melt.

Drunks and players do not need eye contact to approach you.

Quality guys look at you to signal them with eye contact to approach you.

This is what smart women know. Eye contact can get you any man you want.

If they can't see your eyes they won't approach you. They'll think you're not interested in meeting them. To give them the signal that you're approachable, catch their eyes by looking into them.

 

2. Get your girlfriends on board. 


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When you go to a bar with a friend and get deeply involved in a conversation, men think you're busy.

When you face each other and close off the room, there's no room for a man to enter. Superstar women have each other's back while they look forward to meeting men.

Keep your body open, look around at the room, and guys will be able to approach you.

Also, take breaks from your girlfriends and go to the bar or the restroom. Give guys a chance to approach you when you're by yourself. Women who attract lots of guys are strategic. It's how they draw men to them.

 

3. Do things you like doing.


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Guys are attracted to women who are happy. When they see you laughing and smiling, they'll be more attracted to you.

Contrary to popular belief, guys don't find you mysterious just because you're not enjoying yourself. They just stay away from you.

When you're doing things you like, guys will naturally want to meet you, because you're relaxed. And relaxed, happy women are more attractive.

Look up so guys can catch your eye and approach you. Stay open to the room and take breaks from each other when you're with your girlfriends.

Do things you like to do and you'll meet a guy who wants to do them with you.

 

James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after dating and relationship coach for STRONG women based in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love. If you're a smart woman struggling to achieve relationship success, check out the treasure trove of men's attraction secrets in A Life of Love.