Online dating sites are FINALLY catching up to our desires.
There are so many opportunities to find romance in this new world of online dating sites. In the search for your perfect match, you're not only able to key in the height, weight, age, race, religious preference and locale of a potential partner, but now you can also key in any specific kink that you may desire. New online fetish dating sites are popping up on a daily basis.
In my practice as a sex therapist and relationship coach, I often get questions with regard to fetishes. Some people are interested in finding a cure for their fetish, some are seeking to indulge in their fetish and others are interested in finding someone to share in their fetish. A fetish is classfied as a fixation on an object or specific situation that leads to sexual arousal. This also can encompass the obsession one feels towards physical body parts in a sexual sense.
Human sexuality is very complicated; coupled with society's views on sexuality, it can make a person feel shame or the need to hide their sexual preference, fetish and kinky ideas of what turns them on. Many times people will marry or stay in long term relationships but not be satisfied with their sex life or partner.
They may hide their passion for high heels and stockings, their obsession with feet and toes, large breasts or even the desire to be cuckold. Many of these people will be unfulfilled sexually and seek it out elsewhere. It's a shame because sharing and enjoying a fetish with a partner can have a very positive effect on the romance and sex play in a relationship.
Online dating gives a person the ability to shop for a partner tailor made to meet their specific needs, wants, desires and fetishes. In this day and age of internet online dating, it doesn't matter if you are sporting spiked heels and fishnets, in your diaper and collar or even wrapped in rubber needing proper punishment. There's a site for you. Just look it up, log in and you can be enjoying long walks on the beach with your new partner, hand in hand or hand holding leash.