4 Reasons to Try the F-Word...Foreplay

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4 Reasons to Try the F-Word...Foreplay
Foreplay is a topic of debate, when it really should be part of your bedroom routine. Here's why!

Today we’re talking about a super sensitive sexual topic.

Some love it, some hate it, and some simply don’t know much about it.

I’m talking about the F-word...

Foreplay.

We’ve all heard the jokes, but it’s really no laughing matter – foreplay is truly a necessity for any man or woman who wants their female partner to truly let go and enjoy sex.

It’s just the way we’re wired, and it’s not going away any time soon. In fact, foreplay becomes even more necessary as we get older. As our bodies mature and change and our sexual preferences evolve, the way we have sex has to change too.

There’s good news though – foreplay (especially when done right!) can turn your new woman or your wife of 20 years into a teenage sex fiend all over again.

Need convincing?

Here are 4 simple reasons why foreplay leads to great sex, and what it means for you:

1. Foreplay helps us create more natural lubrication. Wet is where it’s at – hot, slippery fun is what this is all about right? And spending a little time to push all the right buttons is really all it takes to open the floodgates. Remember though, if she doesn’t immediately get wet there could be other things interfering with her ability to self-lube. It doesn’t mean she isn’t turned on!

2. Foreplay makes it easier for us to orgasm.  They say practice makes perfect, and who doesn’t want to practice playing with a partner? If you practice your jump shot, it becomes easier and easier to make the shot without having to think about it.  So take that lesson to heart – spend a few minutes getting her worked up and see how quickly it can pay off.

3. With more foreplay, the clitoris becomes engorged and that much easier to find. If you’ve ever had a hard time finding the right spot, just teasing her and touching her can bring her clit out of hiding so that you can REALLY drive her wild.

4. With more foreplay, the g-spot also becomes easier to find. Simply insert your fingers and make a “come hither” motion. I promise, teasing her g-spot and her clit at the same time will have her practically begging for sex. Working those two spots right at the same time can lead her to have a blended orgasm.

So make it an adventure instead of something you have to think about. Glide your fingers over her skin. Nibble some sensitive parts and listen for her moans of pleasure. Get into it, and you automatically get her into it too. 

Have some FOREPLAY tips you want to share? Do you use technology, emails, or text messages to enhance your foreplay? Have any new and interesting foreplay techniques? Share your thoughts in the comments!

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Curvy Girl Chrystal Bougon

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Chrystal Bougon Sex Toy Expert, Resident Curvy Girl &  Pleasure Coach.

Founder of http://www.BlissConnection.com Award Winning Radio Show Host, "Everyone Wants to Have Better Sex" http://www.Bliss-Radio.com

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