I am not promiscuous ...
On the contrary, I am a grown up Catholic girl with 20 years of bible believing Christianity in my past.
I simply find sex to be exhilarating after 60.
Orgasm and pleasure are not what I thought they were when I was 20. Orgasm is a separate experience from love, relationship and yes, men. It's available to anyone, including singles.
Sexual pleasure is a great way to build up self esteem and heal a broken heart. Can you enjoy sex before your new relationship? Absolutely. It is your body after all. I know this is a sensitive subject, but that's why Pleasure For Singles exists; to discuss and celebrate pleasure in all forms.
When pursuing sexual pleasure as a 60-something year old, there are a lot of topics to explore:
Just the word 'masturbation' is enough to throw an ice cold blanket on the sex drive of most Catholics. I still squirm a little bit when I say it. That is why I choose "Solo Sex" as my term of endearment for providing my own orgasm. Your body is capable of some amazing things and your imagination is key.
There are a lot of questions you'll have to ask yourself before you jump into this kind of relaitonship:
Is it wrong to have a "only physical" relationship? Isn't what happens between consenting adults their own business? Have you ever had a sex buddy? Did it end well? What did you learn?
Dating Younger Men
Cougar!? Curious about why older women dating younger men? There are literally hundreds of young men out there cruising for "Cougars". What you have to ask yourself is:
How do you navigate the maze? Do you think dating a younger man feels like a fountain of youth? Why do younger men crave an older more experienced woman?
Sex Education For Ladies
If you are like me, ex-Catholic school girl, white-bread, vanilla-type girl, there is a lot about sex, orgasm and lifestyle that you haven't seen. Tasteful and practical info is out there. It is worth every second of the time you spend to get smart about sex and pleasure.
Sex And Dating
Does the "Three Date Rule" help you or hurt you (If you don't want sex after the third date there is no fourth date)? What do men expect? Do you have to compromise your core beliefs to be with a man? (The answer is no.) When it seems like men want sex or they will leave, what do you do?
If you want to explore pleasure as a single and you are not a slut either, I would love to have you be part of the conversation! Sex is fun and sharing stories, tips and inspiration is the plan.
You are a fabulous woman. Flawed? Of course, just like the rest of us. Lonely? Ditto. Tired of waiting? Ditto. Sexually starving? Now that, you can do something about.
Guess what? Life may have dealt you a Single label and changing that is hard. Life also dealt you a body capable of incredible sensual delights. Being single has nothing to do with partaking in the feast. Come be a satisfied single and see what happens!
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Catherine Behan is a Dating, Sex and Intimacy Coach practicing in San Diego, CA. For a free 20 minute chat to explore your Sexual Confidence or lack thereof, click here.